HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know আপনি probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing আপনি can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true বন্ধু and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like আপনি for who আপনি are and insults আপনি and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would আপনি want অথবা need a friend like that?

True বন্ধু would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real বন্ধু give আপনি a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give আপনি any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but আপনি can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but আপনি can get so many better বন্ধু that treat আপনি well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause আপনি heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one দিন we were talking about what our favourite things were and I ব্যক্ত I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason ব্যক্ত that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better বন্ধু then them. Pretend that আপনি don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing আপনি about something that আপনি don't care about. Good luck and i know আপনি will find better বন্ধু if আপনি just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose অথবা because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells আপনি off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help আপনি talk to your friend. If আপনি can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to আপনি than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as আপনি thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that আপনি can't প্রদর্শনী a little of that self-defense in you. আপনি can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is আরো weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. আপনি need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: পরবর্তি time she calls, make her listen to what আপনি think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS আপনি sound like a great friend:)