Give me আপনি উপদেশ

About a বছর ago, my best friend since first grade dropped me like I was a hot potato. I stood up for her several times because she was being called ugly and nerdy দ্বারা girls who were supposedly her friends- nowadays those are the people she hangs out with. I was so miserable because I felt like it was my fault and that I did something wrong. I tried asking if she was angry with me, but she always replied with, "No, why would আপনি think that?" After a couple months, we didn't even make eye contact with each other. She turned her back on me and I was absolutely crushed- I even lashed out at my mother, who had done nothing, because she brought her up. The best thing anyone can do in a situation like that is সরানো on, which is exactly what you're trying to do. Making বন্ধু isn't easy- it takes time and dedication. What আপনি need to do is listen to conversations around you. If the people involved are talking about something you're interested in, আপনি যোগদান the conversation without a সেকেন্ড thought. It can be hard, but it works out in the long run. Even if they completely reject you, it's better to have tried and failed than to not try at all. The biggest thing about making বন্ধু is persistence- keep trying to find someone আপনি have common interests with, but don't be annoying. I always make বন্ধু দ্বারা making terrible puns; it almost always works. But আপনি need to remember to be yourself, and keep your values in mind. Let's say আপনি value not smoking, and your potential বন্ধু are trying to offer আপনি a cigarette. Friendship is all about being able to be yourself with people who are close to you. If আপনি have to put on a mask in order to hang out with your 'friends' then আপনি need to rethink your priorities, and remember who আপনি want to be, not who your বন্ধু want আপনি to be.

To sum it up:

1. Persistence is key- there's absolutely no guarantee that someone is going to immediately ask আপনি to be their BFF. In fact, the first time আপনি try joining a conversation, they'll probably completely ignore you. But that doesn't mean আপনি should give up.

2. Be yourself, and no one else- Real বন্ধু will প্রণয় আপনি no matter what আপনি do অথবা believe in. It's so incredibly important that আপনি remember what আপনি as an individual want. If being বন্ধু with someone keeps আপনি from being truly happy and shining as bright as আপনি should, you're in a poisonous relationship.

3. Remember that বন্ধু will come and go- Nothing lasts forever, I've learned that the hard way. What matters most is that আপনি keep all the memories =, not just the good ones, and learn from your past relationships and mistakes. It might take some time, but sooner অথবা later, you'll look back and thank that person for প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে their true colors- if they hadn't, আপনি probably would have ended up hurt even more.