Idk if anyone will answer but... I really need some help.

Ok so I finally got the courage to tell this guy at my school that I like him but not face to face through a note. Anyways, after I told him, My বন্ধু decided to talk to him for me since I'm really shy about it and they ব্যক্ত He dosen't like me back and He started making a big deal about it. Btw we used to be বন্ধু and talk alot and have alot of the same interests. My বন্ধু also told me that He's not mad at me অথবা anything He just feels really akward and he thinks My crush on him is weird. So now He won't even talk to me anymore, He just ignores me like I'm not even there. I try and talk to him but He just still ignores me so I'm starting to think He hates me and He dosn't want to be my friend anymore now that I told him. My বন্ধু just say to not worry about it and that He's not worth the time and stuff like that. So I'm just really confused and I just really need help. I really don't know what else to do and how he can talk to me again. Btw He didn't talk to me at all about it and this is also my first time telling a guy I like them. Thanks for পাঠ করা and please Help! :p
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coriann said:
আপনি seem like a shy person, অথবা at least not someone who is very confident in the way she feels. Look, আপনি have every right to feel like আপনি are in প্রণয় with someone, whoever it is, and sometimes that emotion can feel like it's too much to handle. I personally think আপনি did the right thing by...sort of telling him I guess. But আপনি shouldn't use your friends. This is a personal issue that আপনি should have to face head on. Yes, আপনি can rely on your বন্ধু to do many things for you, but some things need to be done দ্বারা you. Confessing your প্রণয় to someone, at least IMO, is one of those things. আপনি should be able to confront the situation the way আপনি see fit and say what আপনি know আপনি need to say. There's little regret after that, trust me. আপনি asked me if I know a lot about guys. I know about people, and I know girls AND guys, like confidence.

It might be too late to gain a relationship, as in a bf/gf relationship but it's not too late to confront the situation and say what আপনি need to say to him. I had a friend who I had a crush on, and they found out in a rather weird way, and they stopped talking to me too. But it wasn't because they didn't like me, it was because of their own fears and concerns. We only spoke a long time after it happened. My only regret is not talking to them when it still mattered, but আপনি can still do it. Think about it.

Anyway, I think that whatever yo do, আপনি should do what feels right to YOU. So...Good Luck :P
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Thank আপনি so much for the advice!
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Frozengirl11 said:
I feel u. I asked the same প্রশ্ন on here, I told a boy I know that I have a crush on him, & things haven't been the same. U can check it out if u'd like. Just give it some time & hopefully he'll come around. Good luck:)
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MaxandMart said:
You've tried talking to him, your বন্ধু have tried talking to him on your behalf, and he still does not talk to you. Try one last time - ask him outright - do আপনি want to be বন্ধু - if he does not answer অথবা does not want to be friends, then সরানো on.

If he does want to remain বন্ধু with you, then tell him he needs to communicate with you.

Right now, from the information আপনি have প্রদত্ত me, I would say he seems like a হারিয়ে গেছে cause - but give him that last chance anyway - that way আপনি know that it is not আপনি for sure - it is him and his childishness.
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