Who should I choose?

I have been going to school with these two guys named Alan and Danny for almost three years. When we first met, Alan and I immediatly felt a connection and we started dating, only to be broken up দ্বারা a jealous friend. Not knowing the truth, we always blamed each other. This past year, Alan and I started dating again. He's always made it very clear in his words that he loves me and would do anything for me, yet I never get any time with him. Alan is the জনপ্রিয় type, and he always has mobs of people following him around. Whenever he's with his বন্ধু and I'm around, I get completely ignored. Whenever I bring it up, he appologizes and says that he wants to spend time with his বন্ধু before they leave পরবর্তি year.
Since I have all this free time, I tend to spend it with Danny. Danny is a sweet, funny guy who really WOULD do anything for me, and he's liked me for three years. I find that I can talk to him about anything, but it feels like he is waiting patiently for Alan and I to break up so he can have me for himself. I would be going out with Danny if I wasn't going out with Alan, but I really don't like Danny as আরো than a friend right now. I প্রণয় Alan, but he seems insincere. I know Danny would treat me better, but I don't want to wait for Alan to pull himself together.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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germany123 said:
Dont go oot with either of them. stay single till আপনি figured oot what আপনি want. dont be with someone who treats আপনি bad..or someone আপনি dont actually like just cause আপনি dont want to be alone :)
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sweet_n_silly said:
honestly, i think আপনি should choose Danny. he seems to care more. having a bf, no matter how popular, doesn't do আপনি any good if he really doesn't care.
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i agree
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exactly
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jeftelover said:
first of all জনপ্রিয় people care about them
selfs than other people.choose danny!break up
with Alan!tell him that it isent working!!!

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me_who_else said:
I know when আপনি first read this আপনি will think that it is a bad idea and a bad comprimise, but give it a little time and আপনি will think it's pretty good. I think that আপনি should break up with Alan. Even though right now আপনি think that আপনি don't like Danny as আরো than a friend later আপনি could decide that আপনি like his sweetness, sincerity, and any other quality that I didn't mention. I broke up with my bf Tyler cuz I didn't really like him all that much anymore. But he had all of those qualities. Now he is going out with my ex-best friend and I have realised that I'm in প্রণয় with him. I am regreting breaking up with him soooo much. And that is what made me and my best friend become ex-best friends. So I hope আপনি think this is good advice. I don't want anyone to be in the kind of pain I am in, cuz it sux major butt.
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JazzLover101 said:
Alan doesn't প্রণয় আপনি it seems to me Danny cares don't wait for Alan boys any boy isn't worth it I don't even know আপনি and just দ্বারা the বিবরণ I can tell আপনি r way to good for Alan আপনি deserve better
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teamsalvatore98 said:
well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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 well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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