I don't think she really loved Lancelot

Agreed! Especially since he never stayed around long enough and then by that time she had already fallen pretty hard for Arthur.

It was only a crush and Lancelot was a never a competition.

Noo, never! LOL you don't love someone who you haven't even had a proper talk, and who left you twice!

Nah, I don't think she loved Lancelot. I think certain people in this fandom exaggerate her feelings for him. They always bring up the "my feelings will never fade" line as proof that Gwen did love him. But feelings can be anything and I do think that she did like him and hero worshipped him a bit after he saved her in 2x04. But love? Nah. Gwen's very guarded and she doesn't throw around the word love very easily so when she says it, it really does mean something and the only person that she's ever said that to is Arthur.

Word Bonnie! And consider the situation Gwen was in it would have heighten her feelings. And she never said she loved Lancelot but she has said it to Arthur.

As much as I loved Lancelot personally. It's pretty obvious she never loved him. She cared for him, yes. Had feelings for him. And in a way he understood her better than Arthur because they were of the same status. And he possessed all the qualities of a noble man but as far as love. No. Gwen has only ever loved Arthur.

Still wish Lancelot Du lac 4x09 was handled better. Could have been an amazing arc instead of one upsetting episode. But Angel and Bradley's acting was so superb.

I don't think Lancelot counted seeing as they didn't really know each other well enough. Maybe that's just my perception of love but I think to truly love someone you have to know everything about them, their good qualities and flaws and accept and love them regardless, and I don't think Gwen knew Lance well enough for it to be proper love.