To start, Azula's mom didn't seem to like her. Though I'm sure Ursa did, Azula just didn't think so. And that's what matters. As a parent, আপনি need to make sure your child knows আপনি প্রণয় her/him. Ursa neglected Azula because she thought Ozai's respect for her was enough. And because she thought Zuko needed her প্রণয় more. Which was not true, Azula needed real love, not just her father's appreciation for her power. I'm not saying Ursa is a horrible mother, she wasn't abusive অথবা anything but she was rather negligent. Ursa also disciplined Azula and yelled at her until she felt as though Ursa thought she was a monster. When parenting the point of discipline isn't to make the child feel like a bad kid it's to teach them not to do whatever they did again. Ursa's method of discipline made Azula feel unloved. Not to mention that she pretty much stated to little Azula's face "what's wrong with this child?" Sure she didn't act like it hurt her but আপনি can tell it did, especially in the end. It really says a lot that the girl had a hallucination of her own mother...telling her (possibly) what she wanted to hear.
As of Ozai...this buttmuncher essentially used her. She was like a pawn to him. A lot of people seem to glamorize her relationship with him. But honestly it really wasn't much better than Zuko's. Sure there was not physically abused...but the a sort of mental abuse was evident. Azula just wanted her father to প্রণয় and appreciate her. Hell, she wanted his respect as much as Zuko did and I think that's why she did so many of the things she did throughout the series...to gain his affection and impress him. And possibly to avoid getting hurt as Zuko was. And so she did earn his respect but not genuine love. Which is sad, parental প্রণয় should be unconditional, she (nor Zuko) should have to 'prove their worth.' When it came down to it, Azula was simply being used. And দ্বারা her own father. He had no problem casting her aside when he thought he was going to get আরো power and had no use for her. Sure he gave her the আগুন lord শিরোনাম she wanted, but only when he thought he would be the phoenix king. The crown was essentially useless at that point, and he knew it too. The look of hurt on her face when he yelled at her was also rather painful. I also read this book from the points of view of each of the characters; at that part of the book she mentions that she's afraid he's going to hurt her as he did Zuko. So really, when it comes down to it, Azula's relationship with Ozai is no better than Zuko's.
Long story short, I find it hard to fathom how people don't seem to think Azula was abused in some way shape অথবা form. Negligence is technically abuse. And the sort of unspoken fear Azula had of Ozai says a lot.
As for her relationship with Mai and Ty-Lee; her interactions with them seemed less friendly and আরো political (I'll explain that in the পরবর্তি paragraph). Though I do think she liked them, she just didn't know how to প্রদর্শনী it properly. She was never really taught how to প্রদর্শনী affection right. And in the end this is what leads to her losing them. And again it hurt her আরো than she let on--and I think she actually did express that it hurt her. Her hurt came out in the form of anger "put them somewhere where I'll never have to see them again and let them rot." Speaking from experience, when someone hurts my feelings I do the same thing I don't cry, I try to make them feel as bad as me, especially if I care about them. It's odd but and I don't quite know how to describe it...it's like hating someone আপনি প্রণয় for not loving you. She really shows how much it hurts her when she mentions that the Di Lee agents would betray her just like Mai and Ty-Lee did. Where as Zuko and Aang where surrounded দ্বারা friends. Zuko always had Iroh, he just didn't seem to see it. Azula is completely alone. I know that Grey DeLisle mentioned in an interview that Azula used fear to make people be her বন্ধু because she didn't think people would like her because they wanted to. That in itself is rather হৃদয় wrenching. And that's without adding the fact that the fear she thinks she has to make them feel is what costs her possible বন্ধু in the end. It's like a vicious cycle.
As shown on the beach, Azula as some...social troubles. Yes she's good at manipulating them and পাঠ করা them, but she doesn't know how to talk with them অথবা make বন্ধু with them. And that in itself is sad; the fact that she's so well-versed in political social skills yet lacks any other form of it. It shows that she was probably put in a position where she was really only able to communicate with people on a political basis. Not to mention her mother never showed her love, which in turn didn't প্রদর্শনী her how to love. And Ozai certainly wasn't a good example--in fact I feel like he was the one she modeled her way of প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে affection after. I mean he showed her affection in a আরো political way, so to speak, and there for her affection was আরো based on respect than genuine love. I would also think that her 'privet and esteemed' lessons at the আগুন Academy for girls didn't help much either, as that still seems like a আরো political learning environment. Basically Azula was raised for politic through and through, and she received little to no actual social skill set training.
Well, i hope to hear lots of মতামত from আপনি guys!
Here is what I think will happen,
Zuko's father, Ozai, will tell Zuko about his mother. Then, he will get mad at Azula, because, Azula knows something, অথবা knew something but kept it from Zuko. But, then Aang puts his hand on Zuko's shoulder and says, We should go.
So, they leave off in খুঁজুন of Zuko's mother.
What do আপনি think will happen?
Lol they are played by the same person!!? OMG1 Azula died and became a mushroom in the next life!
