Who's the one person who voted yes for this one but no for the v Spuffy one? Or is it a different third voter? I'm just wondering why someone'd join one but not the other.

Like in the pick with Bangel vs. Spuffy here's the same. i would never join that club, since I'm not someone who likes to fight with people. I know what I know. Bangel is the one, everyone's knows that. I think even Spuffy/Cangel fans deep down knows that, but just because they are shipping that second pairing, they prefer to create something that is not there e.g. Soulless Spike loved Buffy.