PLZ help me...

They don't hate you. Your family might not like your choices but they don't actually hate you. They are your family. And maybe just think of why they're saying those things.
I know the only reason why I don't like my older cousins is because of how they treat me, I still প্রণয় them, I just don't like how they treat me.
So justnthink of what you've been doing to make them say those things, অথবা sit down with someone from your family who says it a lot and ask them why they're saying that about you.

Even if they say আপনি are mean and don't listen, they প্রণয় you. They will always প্রণয় you.
Maybe আপনি should step back for a moment. Thinnk about আপনি say and if it could be hurtful to someone. Would আপনি like it if someone ব্যক্ত it to you?