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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months পূর্বে he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking আরো then. The closer we got as বন্ধু the আরো I liked him. Two months পূর্বে I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
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abs07 said:
Have আপনি asked God to give আপনি peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have আপনি tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If আপনি have & he gave/gives আপনি the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If আপনি really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if আপনি need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Well just be বন্ধু with him if he doens't want to তারিখ আপনি not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's বন্ধু with আপনি then who knows mayba he will start to like আপনি back ♥
huddygirl2 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. আপনি have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out অথবা not, আপনি will be fantastic with God at your side.
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thank আপনি both, that really helped me:)
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nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken হৃদয় but keep prayihng and get support from your বন্ধু is the only উপদেশ i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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thanks for the advice:)
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LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to আপনি after আপনি ব্যক্ত আপনি like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes আপনি too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. অথবা maybe he only liked আপনি as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him অথবা confront him পরবর্তি time আপনি go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if আপনি offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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thanks for the উপদেশ but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still অভিনয় that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, অথবা isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
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