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This Is A Relationship Problem That I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!

I have this friend whom I have known for nearly two years and as time pasted we grew closer, as I started to help him get over his past and helping him learn to control his anger and even be his shoulder to cry on.I helped him and showed him প্রণয় in a way no one else could অথবা would. Over time he began seeing me as আরো than a friend and fell hard for me, he tested me and told me his feelings which I was stunned দ্বারা but also happy. I told him I'd প্রণয় to go out with him but I just didn't feel the same way and I can only hope they never did. He was disappointed but went along with it. And over a মাস অথবা two one night I just ব্যক্ত "Yes, I'll go out with you." Why? Because he sweet talked me that night (he did it before that too though) and my হৃদয় was swept away দ্বারা him. Ok so I went out with him but every time he touched me I didn't feel that tingle when আপনি touch some আপনি like let alone heat, when talks to me I don't stop and stare in his eyes, my হৃদয় does pound at 100 miles an hour. I just don't get ANY of those feelings I did when I had my first and সেকেন্ড crush. My হৃদয় isn't in it with him, yet I tell him I প্রণয় আপনি and I act like the perfect girl friend when we make out and talk, he feels like he is heaven (and I KNOW he does because I see it on his face and I HEAR it in his voice) but me? Nothing. None of that happens to me. I want to প্রণয় him but I just can't for some reason! AND I DON'T KNOW WHY?!?!?!!!! We have been dating for a good eight months now and NOTHING has changed!!! I get the feeling we are not to be no matter how much I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't feel anything....I told him and he ব্যক্ত they'd come but they haven't.
 Dhampires posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Rainshadow999 said:
I think you're worrying too much about whether আপনি like him অথবা not. That wasn't supposed to offend আপনি but it is the truth…let me start over.

You're worrying too much :D
Actually you're either worrying too much অথবা thinking too much, stop think if আপনি like him অথবা not and get to know him more…maybe আপনি need আরো trust from him?
Be happy, you're 14! (I checked your profile) That means আপনি shouldn't be concerned about your feelings for him unless they're happy-go-lucky!

I hope half of this made sense…I wouldn't know what to do either, if আপনি need আরো help আপনি can always send me a message :)
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I'd have to agree. Maybe if আপনি find out আরো about him the feelings wll come? I don't know. Good উপদেশ though. :)
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