Please help..I cant take the pain anymore...

Hi, I am feeling so bad and empty for the moment and I thought maybe someone of আপনি could help me? (thanks in advance!) So, I was together with a boy for almost 2 months. Previously, he was my best friend for আরো than a বছর and we were like twins. We looked like each other, had the same character, almost everything was the same. He was perfect. Everything was perfect in our relationship, we knew each other the best. But then suddenly, he ব্যক্ত his feelings went away. 5 days before,he ব্যক্ত he loved me. We were very comfy with each other, we both had the feeling that we were the ''mr/mrs right'' for each other. However, I cant stop loving him. He's in the same friend group as me but he seems like he ignores me. However, when he broke up he ব্যক্ত ''I like আপনি so much and you're so perfect but my feelings went away'' I dont understand this at all.. what would আপনি do? I cant forget him, he meant so much to me and he always will.. but he keeps hurting me that way. It looks like he হারিয়ে গেছে interest. I feel so empty and my হৃদয় hurts alot. I never experienced such pain... he's in my school / friend group as well so its very harsh..he keep ignoring me.. (we broke up around 3 weeks ago)
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simrananime said:
Admiration is a short lived passion.......if his feelings went away......and didnt even thought once before breaking...up...that means he was not made for you.....!!!......so cheer up....there are millions of boys...there must be a special one for আপনি too......just think he was not the one...........!!!...and দ্বারা my suggestion আপনি should ignore him too :P
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DarkJules said:
If he's anything like me, some thing might have happened that he wants to distance আপনি from him, to protect you, অথবা he's afraid that maybe things we're going too perfect and that maybe he should end it before আপনি ended it and hurt him.

If আপনি know his history think back about how his life is অথবা has been and look for something that might have triggered this.

Back in Middle School I had a friend who we were the best, I knew her family and I'd hang out with them on a daily basis, I really liked her, and I had a feeling she like me also. Then one দিন I found out I was moving and I start to distance myself from her and ignoring her, because I knew that having something and leaving was আরো painful than just being বন্ধু and leaving.

So if he's anything like me try to either force him to tell আপনি the real reason, figure out what caused him to start অভিনয় like this, অথবা just try to সরানো on...
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