Do আপনি believe that your gender gives আপনি advantages অথবা disadvantages in life?


I personally believe so avidly because, as a transgender, I am accustomed to vitriol and chagrin from others. That is why only a select few people in real life know about it at all. Many transgenders are persistently attacked in the vast majority of countries, and I know all too well the repercussions of being honest about it. Other gender identities that do not fit the stereotypical binary standards are often persecuted in kind. I am also feminist, but since I hate the name, I tend to call myself an "advocate for gender equality" অথবা an "egalitarian". It is a proven fact that in most countries, women are often paid less than men. However, particularly in my country, this only occurs in private businesses. It is illegal in governmental ones.

There are many generalizations made towards men, such as with how they often lose their children in cases of domestic abuse, even when the mother is at fault. They are expected to have abs, massive genitals, and a confident, cheerful outlook at all times, necessary অথবা not. However, there are a lot আরো expectations and social constructs enslaving women in totality, such as their supposed "need" to dress in extremely orthodox modesty in school, and how often they are perceived as sexual objects in comparison to men.

It may be very different in your country, so I am open to completely different perspectives. In fact, I am curious, which is why I asked this question.
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Update: My মতামত on this have changed. I now believe there is an equal amount of discrimination towards each gender.
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twinklestar11 said:
disadvantages because being a girl sucks.
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You're not wrong. I'm still stuck in a female body so I know the struggle.
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IsoldeLillia said:
I think that It's a disadvantage, because some people say, "A boy should never hit a girl," but nobody should hurt anyone (at less It's for self defense).
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Facts
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simrananime said:
I personally don't think so because if আপনি look at all the statistics then males sufferes the most, they work high risk jobs, statistically are the highest victims of violent crimes, have highest suicide and stress rate, are প্রদত্ত larger prison sentence and loose their resources and kids in 90% of divorce cases and about the gender wage gap....well it has already been debunked দ্বারা all facts and studies thousands of times. And I as a straight female I face lots of judgements, loose বন্ধু and face problems in life. Struggles in life are inevitable regardless of gender অথবা sexuality. And even if there is something called 'gender privelege' then I'm still waiting for mine to প্রদর্শনী up xD

(I hope আপনি dont mind me answering. I just really liked this question)
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I don't mind আপনি answering at all. And in actuality, you're debunking your own point. আপনি ব্যক্ত males suffer আরো than females, meaning that আপনি DO find that your gender gives আপনি advantages অথবা disadvantages in your life. আপনি did tell me some things that I looked up and were shockingly true, so great job! However, the wage gap is absolutely present in many private corporations because the government has no control over that. There are plenty of statistics that prove that it is very much real. If আপনি want me to give আপনি the links, I'd be obliged.
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হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ I only brought up the point of male suffering cuz everyone only talks about women's right and seem to be unaware of men's right proving that both the sexes have their own problems in the world I don't think it's fair to see everything only from the perspective of gender. And if someone is paying আপনি less then they have all the right to go to court regardless of private sector অথবা not. And everyone would have hired women to do the jobs. Well I have seen all the claims of gender wage gap but all were debunked and even দ্বারা Harvard studies.
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However, the Harvard documents mostly focused on bus and train operators. Those people are a part of a mandated union that ensures equal pay. It doesn't say anything about other private professions. But it's still very interesting that there are a lot of jobs where there isn't a wage gap. আপনি taught me something.
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