Peaceandlove67 Article: It's Hard Being Asexual

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posted by Peaceandlove67

I didn't intend on লেখা this originally, but I just felt like venting, so here I go. Being asexual isn't easy, but it's part of who I am. I can't exactly change that. What's hard is some people can't accept it.

I thought that I wouldn't be bullied once I was in college. I still get bullied for being asexual. It's indirectly, unlike when I was in high school. At least, I'm not getting beat up for it.

I overheard one person saying that the reason I'm asexual is that I can't get a date. I could if I wanted to. I have been asked out দ্বারা a few people, but I turned them down. They just weren't my type. One of them didn't even like rock and roll. That's a deal breaker for me.

For the longest time, I've actually been afraid to date. When I was in high school, there was one guy who told me that I would like sex if I tried it. He then told me to meet him after school. I did not meet with him. I went straight home. I'm sure if I had met with him, he would have raped me. After opening up to some of my বন্ধু here about it, Layla pointed out to me that I shouldn't let just one incident make me afraid of dating. I'm not currently looking. I'm waiting for romance to find me.

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BingoPB I'm sorry you're having a hard time, Antonia. I hope those people who make fun of you don't have any friends. They don't deserve them, especially not a wonderful friend like you. Only a few people know about me being asexual, and I think I'll keep it that way.

80smusiclover1 I agree with Kayla. Those bastards are just losers. Remember that you are very special no matter what they say about you. *Hugs*

Rubyrings They don't get it, that's all there is to it. And they don't deserve to have you around. I can't believe they assumed that just because you haven't had any dates means you "can't" get any.

Peaceandlove67 *returns hugs* Thanks, everyone.

Roldan13 Antonia, don't pay them any mind. They just don't know anything about anything. You're a great person. Remember that.

Peaceandlove67 Thank you, Jill.

ktichenor I'm so sorry that happened. Those people are just jerks! Tbh I went through some of the same things with so called friends while I was struggling to figure out what I was so I understand. Just remember you're a strong and great person and we're here for you, always. *hugs!*

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Pinned Down and Abused for Being Strange Part 1

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Quinton was a teen who lived in the mountains of Tennessee. He was not like his schoolmates who liked country music. He was into rock and roll, especially grunge. Quinton was into grunge bands and grunge fashion. He wore flannel shirts, unless it was warm outside. He also wore grunge band shirts, mainly for Alice in Chains and Soundgarden, his two পছন্দ grunge bands. He had light brown hair flowing down to his shoulders. One day, he was listening to Dirt, his পছন্দ Alice in Chains album on his iPod. Suddenly, a group of bullies surrounded him. The ring leader was called T-Rex. Nobody...

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উপদেশ From John Wilde Final Part

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The পরবর্তি morning, John had fixed breakfast. Grace told him, "You really know your way around the kitchen, John." He said, "Well, when আপনি grow up with a mother who won't cook, আপনি have to learn to do it yourself." Grace felt sympathy for John. Poor John! she thought. He really did have a rough life. After breakfast, John drove Grace back home. During the ride, she said, "John, my uncle told me that after I graduate high school, I might not ever see some of my বন্ধু again. Was this true for you?" John said, "I wish I could say no. I had a pretty good বৃত্ত of বন্ধু in high school, but I...

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প্রণয় antonia

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উপদেশ From John Wilde Part 4

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When Grace came to, she looked at her surroundings. She was lying on a couch, and she saw her knight in shining armor, John. He said, "It's good that you're awake, Grace. Are আপনি okay?" She said, "I think so." He asked, "What are আপনি doing in Portland? Why aren't আপনি in Salem?" She said, "I went for a bike ride to clear my head, and I was so হারিয়ে গেছে in thought, and I didn't realize where I was going until I saw a sign that indicated I was in Portland. It was so dark, and I got scared দ্বারা a shadowy figure. I peddled as fast as I could, and I made it here. I'm glad to know I found you." John said,...

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উপদেশ From John Wilde Part 3

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After finishing her homework late in the afternoon that Friday, Grace decided to go for a bike ride. Her aunt asked, "Where are আপনি going, dear?" Grace said, "I'm just going for a bike ride to clear my head. That's all." Her aunt said, "All right. Be back in time for dinner, okay?" Grace said, "Okay." She went on, thinking about the day's event. It had been quite a rough দিন for poor Grace. She and her friend, Sabrina, talked about doubling up. Grace remembered what Sabrina had ব্যক্ত to her. "If আপনি don't double up with me, I won't be your friend anymore." This hurt Grace deeply. Why is that...

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A message of inspiration for my friend. ❤

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উপদেশ From John Wilde Part 2

posted by Peaceandlove67

When Grace went into her house, her aunt and uncle were waiting on her. Her aunt asked, "Did আপনি have a good day, dear?" Grace said, "Yes. I just found out that for the coming school year, I could double up and graduate early." Her uncle said, "Really?" She said, "Yes, and I'm considering it." Her aunt asked, "Grace, are আপনি sure আপনি want to do this?" Grace said, "Yeah." Her uncle said, "Eleventh grade is going to be your hardest বছর academically. If আপনি combine আপনি twelfth grade বছর along with it, that might make it even harder." She said, "I'm willing to face the challenge." Her aunt said,...

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উপদেশ From John Wilde Part 1

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Grace was just finishing her সেকেন্ড বছর of high school. She enjoyed the experience for the most part. Although some of her বন্ধু had moved away within the last year, she still had a few good বন্ধু left. Later, she learned that for her third বছর of high school, she could double up and graduate early. She ব্যক্ত to herself, "It might not be such a bad idea." Later, she talked with her friend, Michael. She said, "I'm thinking about doubling up for the coming school year." He asked, "Why would আপনি want to do that?" I said, "Well, I get to graduate early if I do." He said, "The eleventh grade...

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Finding a Way to Cope Final Part

posted by Peaceandlove67

It was time to start school once again. I would be starting the seventh grade. After school, I immediately went jogging with my puppy, Redford and my friend, Brian. Unfortunately, Brian scared me at one point. He ব্যক্ত to me, "Aubrey, we need to stop." I asked, "Why? What's wrong?" He said, "I feel light-headed." He then collapsed at my feet in a dead faint. Redford and I stayed close to Brian. I was prepared to let Redford off the lead to find help. Fortunately, after about thirty seconds, Brian came to. He asked, "What just happened?" I said, "You fainted. Are আপনি okay?" He said, "I don't...

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 5

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One day, I went jogging with my dog, Redford. As we were jogging, I tripped and fell. As I fell, my ankle made a horrible cracking sound. It sound like the snapping of a বৃক্ষ branch breaking. I didn't try to get up at first. As I was lying there, Redford licked my face. I was still holding the lead, and he didn't offer to slip out of his মণ্ডল and run off. I only had Redford for a few weeks, and he was already strongly bonded to me. I tried to get up, but my ankle was really hurting. Reluctantly, I let Redford off of the lead and said, "Go get help!" He took off. I sat there and held my throbbing...

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 4

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I went on the Internet and found a dog breed selector. It had a series of প্রশ্ন regarding what I was looking for in a dog. The final results led me to a breed. It was the Siberian Husky, simply called Siberian অথবা Husky. I read about it, and I really liked the description. I talked with my parents about it. One day, I heard my parents talking. My father said, "Aubrey has been wishing she had a jogging companion." My mother said, "Yes, and the Siberian Husky is good for that." One morning, my parents woke me up. They said, "Come on. We're going on a trip." I asked, "Where are we going?" My...

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 3

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One day, I almost picked up a pair of scissors to cut myself with. My father hid the pocket ছুরি from me. I then saw my guitar. As I was strumming, a few words began to pop into my head. I got a notebook I wasn't using otherwise and a pen, and I wrote some words down. They were very sad, but they seemed to give me some comfort. Just then, my mother came into my bedroom and said, "Aubrey, your বন্ধু are here." I came downstairs, and my বন্ধু Chelsea, Sam, and Brian were standing at the door. I said, "Hi, guys. What brings your here?" Chelsea said, "We're going to the mall. My mother is...

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 2

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In the months after Jim's untimely death, I remained very sad. Jim and I used to enjoy jogging together. I still enjoyed jogging, but it got lonely doing it alone. None of my other বন্ধু were interested in that. The bullying really picked up. My remaining বন্ধু would stand up for me, but that didn't stop the bullies from bullying me. Sometimes they would beat me. Many times, I would pretend I needed to use the restroom so that I could be alone to cry. One day, when I was sitting at home, I saw a pocket knife. I honestly don't know what I was thinking, if I was thinking at all, but I began...

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Finding a Way to Cope Part 1

posted by Peaceandlove67

Jim and I were two kids growing up in the foothills of North Carolina. We were the best of friends. We did everything together. We even had numerous inside jokes. We very seldom disagreed. When we did, it was always over something stupid. In the end, we would always make up and laugh about how ridiculous we were. Jim and I loved each other in a way that only best বন্ধু could. We even had the same birthday. We never thought that we would ever separate, but one day, we did. One day, when we were only twelve, we were riding the bus to go home. Suddenly, the bus slipped on a patch of ice. The...

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New Religion: New প্রথমপাতা Final Part

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The members of New Religion went out of town to spend some time with their families. On the last দিন of doing so, they spent some time at a shopping mall. Suddenly, gunshots were heard, and everyone was scattered about. The members of New Religion and their families suddenly got separated in the chaos. Erin and her brother, Daniel, managed to find an emergency exit. Paul managed to find a storage room to hide in. Carl and his family soon found a way out. Lola's family managed to escape, but Lola got shot. She proceeded to lie on the floor, pretending to be dead. The pain was intense, but she...

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New Religion: New প্রথমপাতা Part 4

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The members of New Religion went to the recording studio to record a humorous song that Erin had written. Lola said, "I admire that আপনি were able to keep your humor, despite being injured." Erin said, "Sometimes bad things happen, and there's nothing আপনি can do about it." Paul said, "That's true. I feel silly for suggesting we leave Miami." Carl said, "Don't feel silly, Paul. Oak Ridge is safer in terms of crime. Besides, no place is one hundred percent safe." Erin said, "Carl's right. Living in fear of bad things happening is the worst way to live. If you're living that way, you're really...

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New Religion: New প্রথমপাতা Part 3

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The members of New Religion went to the airport to fly to Oak Ridge. The সারমেয় had to ride in crates in a different compartment. The flight went smoothly. The only problem was that one of Paul's সারমেয় howled the entire time. If anyone asked, he denied ownership. Everyone made it to Oak Ridge all right. Once they arrived at their new home, Erin, Paul, Carl, and Lola unpacked their things and settled in. That night, they instantly went to bed. They were exhausted from their trip. The পরবর্তি morning, Paul was the first one up. He decided to fix breakfast for everyone. While he was making breakfast,...

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New Religion: New প্রথমপাতা Part 2

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While Carl looked for নিরাপদ towns in the United States, Paul decided that it would be good for him to get out of the house. Paul, Erin, and Lola went out for lunch at a local restaurant. Things were going really well. Suddenly, a former employee came busting through the door. He was not happy about the fact he had been fired, and he held the building at gunpoint. "What do we do now?" Erin whispered. Lola whispered back, "I don't know." Paul whispered, "I have an idea. We'll leave our tips and sneak out the back." While the former employee was confronting the manager, Erin, Lola, and Paul left...

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New Religion: New প্রথমপাতা Part 1

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The members of New Religion were in their house in Florida, লেখা a new song together. Fritz, their mascot and musician dog, was sitting close to the band members. Paul's Siberian Huskies, Yukon and Nunavut, were in the পরবর্তি room. Erin said, "This is a perfect evening." Paul said, "Yes, it is." Lola said, "I don't think anything can possibly go wrong tonight." Carl nodded in agreement. Just then, Nunavut started growling. "What? Are আপনি jealous now?" Paul remarked. Just then, a scream was heard. Paul grabbed Nunavut's lead and clipped it to the collar. Carl followed Paul out the door and...

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True বন্ধু See Past Your Scars Final Part

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It was the summer of 2017. This summer was a little sad, but it also had happy points. Early in the summer, I was sitting in my bedroom. I heard the doorbell ring, and I heard my uncle say "I'll get it." I then heard an unfamiliar voice say "Would আপনি be willing to take this puppy? My son doesn't want her. I intended for her to be a gift for his tenth birthday, but he threw her against the wall. He probably broke her leg." My uncle said, "And আপনি didn't take her to the vet?!" The unfamiliar voice said, "No." My uncle said, "You know what, I'll gladly take this কুকুরছানা from you! Now, get off of...