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I need help! (Guys and girls please!)

Ok so...there's a guy that im totally into right now. He's only 2 and a half years older than me and we are both in college so i dont think that age is an issue.

But anyways, ive tried flirting with him, getting his attention দ্বারা smiling, how i dress (p.s. im not dressing slutty cuz im not willing to do that and it would turn him off). Sometimes he flirts nad jokes with me back and sometimes he seems to care less. He's one of the directors in the play im in and im wondering if it has anything to do with the fact that he feels we need to stay professional?

But sometimes he seems to be প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে off and teasing and other times he either pretends i dont exist অথবা gets slightly awkward (the other দিন i gave him a big smile and he looked nervous.)

Sooo...basically....im confused. I dont know whether im misinterpreting his signals অথবা whether he's confused as well? I dont know if hes interested and afraid অথবা if he actually has NO idea. অথবা maybe he thinks im just being friendly? Anyone have any suggestions of what i should do অথবা say? অথবা what hes possibly feeling? I've asked lots of people but i need as much উপদেশ as possible. Thanks!
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HaleyDewit said:
Here's what আপনি should do,but it won't be easy.You just go to him and tell him honestly how আপনি feel.If he feels the same way,you're lucky.If he doesn't,it sucks,but at least you'll know and আপনি can stop worrying.I hope this was of any use to you.
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yeah its really scary. if nothing else works i might have to do this lol. but im worried it would ruin our friendship আপনি know?
HuddyJoy0524 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Yes,but আপনি can't keep going like this,can you?
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ilovekud said:
well i would say if u r on friendly terms, then just go up to him, but dont tell him how u feel just yet. and start a simple convo. while in that comvo compliment him mayb on his "directing skills" then tell him how u admire him n u think its cool that u two could b friendly. then if its all goin well i would then let him know that ur interested দ্বারা saying something like.. ya know id প্রণয় to find guy like u to date, r u available?? n laugh n u can play it off as a joke if need b, otherwise আপনি will get his reaction, if he acts shy then u can say well mayb we can go out as বন্ধু sometime. if he acts like he is interested then ask him if he would like to go out somewhere just the 2 of u.
i think this would b a win win situation if u play it like i said, u either can continue his friendship n mayb open other doors as well. all along ur not making yourself vulnerable দ্বারা telling him outrite how u feel.
i hope this helps u out a bit!
good luck xo
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Thanks! i can definitely try some of that!
HuddyJoy0524 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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This is a really good i dea i will do this too!!!thanks!!!very smart!!!!b/c if i tell him how i feel and he doesnt feel the same i couldnt handle that but this is really good!thanks:D
chadalco posted বছরখানেক আগে
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YW! GOOD LUCK !!!
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LaurieLover said:
Hold On Just A মিনিট !

So আপনি have a thing for this guy and he's iffy ?

Well the biggest mistake আপনি can make is telling him straight out. If he is already confused অথবা nervous অথবা whatever he is, what do আপনি think THAT is going to do to him. AND if he is being a typical guy and loving the attention 1 মিনিট and অভিনয় cold and distant the পরবর্তি I say, back of. He might be one of those guys that likes to play the game but not commit INCASE something they think is better comes along.

There is NOTHING a man WANTS আরো than a WOMAN he CAN'T HAVE !!!

Make no mistake he would have to be in a coma not to realise দ্বারা now that আপনি are interested.

He 22 not 12, he KNOWS !!

So again I say back of. Be friendly to him, but not overly so. And if he flirts, flirt back, but keep it simple, and playful. Nothing wrong with flirting...

If he is interested, and আপনি back of he will realise he risks loosing আপনি and he will make the first move. They আপনি can go on from there.

If he's not interested then "c'est la vie."
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I agree with keeping it casual. At the most maybe mentioning a movie আপনি want to see and saying none of your বন্ধু are interested in seeing it :) If he thinks of আপনি as a friend then he doesn't want to hurt your feelings I'm sure so I agree with LL.
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friends_4_ever said:
iam not going 2 long 4 u so u can read,just try 2 be near 4 him anyway in the play,try 2 be not পরবর্তি 2 him all the time,so,he canot feel that u r stick 2 him and when itis the sutible time after spending big time with him go and teel him ur feelings...i really wish it works :D
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