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what do আপনি do when আপনি have a broken heart?

my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and im so sad :(
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ilovekud said:
wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal দ্বারা relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.
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yea okay thanks
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sapherequeen said:
Write. It always helps. Trust me =)
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rayray36 said:
Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that...
also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom অথবা some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with বন্ধু but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes আরো pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur হৃদয় out 2 them and then they tell every1...


Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.

Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that আপনি can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.

Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What উপদেশ would আপনি give to your friend?

Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do আপনি believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?

Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how আপনি feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.

Step 6
If আপনি feel আপনি need to know why he cheated on আপনি to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean আপনি condone, agree with অথবা accept his behavior.

Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology অথবা promises never to cheat on আপনি again. Be realistic. Do আপনি honestly believe this was a one-time event, অথবা do your instincts tell আপনি that he'll probably cheat on আপনি again in the future?

Step 8
Ask yourself if আপনি would be better off with him অথবা without him. Can আপনি continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?

Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.

Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether আপনি stay with him অথবা not, forgive him for his actions so আপনি can heal and সরানো on with your life.


Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com link

small উদ্ধৃতি from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their হৃদয় once again

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the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-

srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD

*Wishes u good luck*
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 Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that... also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom অথবা some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with বন্ধু but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes আরো pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur হৃদয় out 2 them and then they tell every1... Step 1 Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal. Step 2 Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that আপনি can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own. Step 3 Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What উপদেশ would আপনি give to your friend? Step 4 Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do আপনি believe he won't repeat his actions in the future? Step 5 Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how আপনি feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship. Step 6 If আপনি feel আপনি need to know why he cheated on আপনি to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean আপনি condone, agree with অথবা accept his behavior. Step 7 Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology অথবা promises never to cheat on আপনি again. Be realistic. Do আপনি honestly believe this was a one-time event, অথবা do your instincts tell আপনি that he'll probably cheat on আপনি again in the future? Step 8 Ask yourself if আপনি would be better off with him অথবা without him. Can আপনি continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal? Step 9 Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger. Step 10 Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether আপনি stay with him অথবা not, forgive him for his actions so আপনি can heal and সরানো on with your life. Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_9817_handle-cheating-boyfriend.html#ixzz0vVJxTTs6 small উদ্ধৃতি from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their হৃদয় once again http://weirdgrl12.glogster.com/healthy-recovery/ the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.- srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD *Wishes u good luck*
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Funnygirl77 said:
awwwwwwww i'm sorry, I just deal with it but that's just me. I would tell u to talk with some of your friends. Theyll be able to help sorry aging
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yea but right now it just feels that i cant stop cryin
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aww i hope u fill better :D
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yea okay i guess it will take time
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Duncan-superfan said:
I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have উপদেশ for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.
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thanks that helps some
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No problem.
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GaGaBoi said:
That's what my friend Mr. Smirnoff is for. (:
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:)
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Spi_Kat_Penguin said:
I'm sorry about your boyfriend, If he cheated on u hes a crazy-poopoo head:) 4 you, just let it all out!!! Cry 4 a little bit, then beat him up a pic of him later!!! (Even him if u want!!!)

-Spi
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okay হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ ill try that
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fun123fun said:
eat alot of sweets and wach your fav show
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yea that helps forget
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JBfan516 said:
What i do is i just spend some alone time but i also spend time with my family and friends. Try to balance it
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okay balance is the key to happiness right
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LunaShay said:
Awww im so sorry!!!!!!If আপনি have a picture of him and a dartboard,put his face on it and aim for the nose :).Also,get some sugar and watch tv,that always helps,or take a nap(what i do XD).
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Snugglebum said:
আপনি shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a ছুরি to my wrist and i dont want আপনি doing the same to yourself!If আপনি feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!
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y not i thought about it before
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trust me, i have a reputation at প্রথমপাতা now because of it, it makes it worse!
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skaterwildz said:
Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great আপনি were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that আপনি liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my বন্ধু and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)
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ok thanks
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Jeffersonian said:
I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous লেখক as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if আপনি make up a story like that it will make আপনি feel better.
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হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ yea totally helps
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Kadaj said:
I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think আপনি should সরানো on - that's what I did when I came back from হ্যালোইন break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some বন্ধু about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.


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thanks
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rose12345 said:
awww i'm sorry. The best thing i can tell u is surround yourself দ্বারা your friends, listen to সঙ্গীত relate to it and in a couple of weeks আপনি might get over it.
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taismo723 said:
What do I do? I fix it with tape. Why?
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Matsy23 said:
awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your বন্ধু about it, অথবা talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and আপনি could also watch some tv to help forget about him
um....thats really all the উপদেশ i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend
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invaderlin123 said:
i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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 i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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LadyL68 said:
I'm so sorry :(
The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to সরানো on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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 I'm so sorry :( The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to সরানো on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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sorry the pic is so small i didn't mean 4 it 2 do that হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ
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Tayloraddict-1 said:
Well i eat ALOT but dont do dat it can make u fat but im not fat i stopped b4 that happened
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HNismyfriend said:
look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater দ্বারা Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff অথবা getting eaten দ্বারা sharks অথবা getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me
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Monrose said:
Go to the ER অথবা die.
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xshams said:
I try to do something mean to him.
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nikki5516 said:
I very so to hear that I hope আপনি feel better.

When I have a broken হৃদয় I will listen to sad সঙ্গীত and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone দ্বারা my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier সঙ্গীত and sing along I will also talk to my বন্ধু to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD
some people say that চকোলেট helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat চকোলেট and ice cream and watch tv অথবা listen to music...lol

like I ব্যক্ত I hope আপনি feel better <3
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