If I was pregnant, I would be freaking out over the whole 'I'm a dude' thing.
I'm pro-choice. If আপনি accidentally have a baby, অথবা if you're a rape victim and you've been impregnated, I believe আপনি should be able to legally have an abortion. There's no stopping young women from smoking and drinking to terminate the pregnancy, they can easily get alcohol and nicotine from other people. If moral issues make আপনি not want to have one, that's swell and dandy, but that shouldn't stop the people who do want one.I don't understand how a foetus is alive, if abortion is killing, in the same sense, masturbation should be considered mass murder, since sperm have the potential at life. Birth starts at a specific time...AT BIRTH. The foetus has the POTENTIAL of life. And don't try to pull the 'What if it was you' card on me, I personally believe in reincarnation.
Changing the subject a bit, I think it's fantastic you're having a child, congratulations.
Birth starts at conception makes me kinda laugh...actually. XD What about birth starting at birth, on your birthday?
Even though you're a teen, আপনি should not abort the baby. আপনি are very blessed to have been able to have a child, even so at such a young age. However, sex without marriage is wrong, and আপনি were wrong to do so in the first place. no offense, but its the truth. congrats, and give the baby a chance at life with a wonderful mommy(:
Whoo. Okay. I have a bit of a complicated answer. First off, in general, I'm against sex w/o marriage. (Because I'm a Christian, and the Bible says that it's wrong) HOWEVER, I am also against aborting ANY baby, no matter the status of the parents. শিশুরা come into the earth for a reason. They're born because God has a plan for them, even if we don't know what that plan is. Abortion, in my opinion, is stupid and just plain wrong. So I guess, congrats! And also, wise of আপনি to not abort :)
In some ways, I do think that it is better to have your baby aborted than to be born into this world with bad parenting. If আপনি know that there is no way আপনি can look after your child, then maybe abortion is the right choice.
I do think though that everything happens for a reason, and that if they have they chance to live a life with a loving family, then they should have the chance. They're the পরবর্তি generation.
EDIT: [But then, my birth mother obviously couldn't look after me and my twin brother. She left us to a social worker and we got বিভক্ত করা up and put in different home. I প্রণয় my family, and I'm nothing less of a person because of who my parents could have been. I just wish I knew my brother আরো than anything. But I guess it was a good thing that I was born, I've lived a good life. But I personally could never leave my child to another family. Never.]
I would personally never abort my baby. Even if I somehow got pregnant at my age now, and I'm 13. If it was because I got raped, of course it would be sad to ave to tell the child when they're older that their father was a rapist, but I believe that I'd be able to give my child a good life, and I'd প্রণয় him/her just as much as I would if I'd had my baby through choise.
Congratulations দ্বারা the way! I'm sure you'll be a great mum, and I wish আপনি luck on your journey through parenthood. :)
If I was pregnant, it would mean that I would have had sex, and being asexual and having no desire for sex, it would mean that I am a rape victim. I never want kids, and I don't want to sacrifice my body and education that I can get as a teenager for it. Needless to say, ABORT.
first of all congrats =) well i would never abort my baby abortion for me is a crime...it is like killing a life ..hmmm i think that teens must be better informed about precautions and they must use precautions all the time !
There's twelve বছর olds having শিশুরা so I'm not really surprised....
But to answer your question, no I wouldn't abort the baby because first of all, the child didn't ask to be here and then get upset because I"ve gotten pregnant and taking it out the child.I'm not going to kill him/her for the stupid decisions that I've made that it ended up in my stomach in the first place.
Second, I still wouldn't abort the child even if I was a rape victim. Even though some horny knucklehead made me his victim that he probably couldn't get it the first place, I still wouldn't abort the baby though instead, I would put up for adoption.
Point is, it's not the baby's fault and he/she shouldn't have to die because of idiotic choices, যেভাবে খুশী lusts, অথবা incest. If আপনি don't know what incest is, it's when আপনি sleep with someone you're related to like aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers, sisters etc.
if i were pregnant i would never abort my baby for the world and i would do anything to provide a good life to my kid in my personal opinion its harsh to abort a child its just so wrong plus i প্রণয় kids so i would be happy about it . and aww congratulations i wish ya best wishes and i am sure আপনি will be the best mommy :)
If I were a teenager again, I'd be scared as hell probably but I don't think I would have the হৃদয় to abort. To me and I know I will be hated for this because people are all for it, but I wouldn't abort. I can't agree with it, maybe if I had been raped অথবা that it would kill me than maybe I would have one. But I just can't agree with aborting it.
im sorry, i don't think i could abort the baby on the basis that is "might" not be alive, i mean, i dunno, something about it being my own baby would be somewhat disturbing, i mean, if i did it i'd probably be psychologically affected, im a softie, really and i প্রণয় kids and small animals, yeah, i know, it's stupid since i also get annoyed দ্বারা them. so in the process of not making up my mind the baby would have probably been born already :P lol, and then there's this, deciding when to abort it, আপনি know? i mean the last few months it's pretty...baby-like, হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ i dunno, but totally congrats on your baby and good luck with everything! :D anyway, anyone else who wants to abort their baby, it's totally up to আপনি guys, XD im হারিয়ে গেছে on the subject actually, i'd probably just feel to guilty to abort my "own" baby i don't know about anybody else, i'd probably still be okay with আপনি if আপনি did, like if আপনি were going through some problem, অথবা if আপনি were just some person who agrees with it guy অথবা girl. i've got lots of বন্ধু who hate kids অথবা don't think they would be good parents and are 100% for abortion especially with very young teens anyways, again, congrats on the baby :)
I wouldn't abort, and I'm not against teen pregnancy (it's people's life choices, let them do what they want), but... I wouldn't get pregnant in the first place because I'm barely a teenager And Pregnancy just scares me right now. It'll probably change later on in life, but right now, giving birth makes me feel squeamish...
Congrats on the baby. I don't believe in abortion because শিশুরা are gifts from God. To abort is basically killing it and destroying a miracle. I think it better to put the baby up for adoption to give it a chance at life. Teen pregnancy is difficult, but it is possible. Continue to go to school and make a great life for yourself and the baby. It is ultimately your decision. Good luck!