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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my বন্ধু are treating me bad. I went to one of myy বন্ধু party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest অথবা the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me অথবা something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation আপনি were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something আরো to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe আপনি could try telling your বন্ধু আপনি don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see আপনি suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe আপনি could start doing something আপনি enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using কবিতা and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish আপনি the best of luck!
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Thank আপনি that helps alot
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azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
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_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk আরো
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that প্রণয় আপনি :D
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yea
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someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have আপনি told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
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Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll প্রদর্শনী them that you're not affected দ্বারা what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
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Yeah if আপনি act like আপনি don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on আপনি
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I agree, if আপনি প্রদর্শনী them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave আপনি alone.
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LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ thats funny
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narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
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your welcome
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
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JaseKS said:
I know exactly how আপনি feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. আপনি can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
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chattycandy said:
this maybe
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im not sure but try it
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alright thank আপনি
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Sasume said:
Well I can tell আপনি from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your বন্ধু won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real বন্ধু won't try to bring আপনি down, they'll support আপনি and help you. Maybe it's time আপনি found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? আপনি make it worse on yourself when আপনি silently agree with the bullies. Why don't আপনি do something আপনি love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor অথবা something. I may not know you, but I want আপনি to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
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Thanks
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springely said:
Tell them আপনি don't care, and tell them if আপনি keep bothering you, আপনি will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. আপনি need to প্রদর্শনী that আপনি don't want them anymore, and আপনি should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
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BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different লিঙ্ক to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your বন্ধু are starting to bully আপনি too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true বন্ধু and আপনি are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly অথবা not as i don't know what আপনি look like, and sure আপনি may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of আপনি that is gorgeous. Have আপনি ever thought that these people are bullying আপনি because they're jealous?
আপনি have something they don't and they want it, and to প্রদর্শনী that they are hounding আপনি to put আপনি down so low আপনি can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My উপদেশ is that আপনি tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' আপনি feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last বছর he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If আপনি start harming yourself, you're প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে these bullies that what they are doing to আপনি is working. Try to ignore them as much as আপনি can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for আপনি soon, and আপনি need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but দ্বারা this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He ব্যক্ত "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one দিন my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people অথবা alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid ব্যক্ত company, but I ব্যক্ত I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on ফেসবুক about him being fat. But that is not what আপনি should do.

I adivse আপনি ignore them, and প্রদর্শনী them that আপনি don't give a shit. they should leave আপনি alone.
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thanks
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invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take জ্যায়াই for example me and my বন্ধু প্রণয় জ্যায়াই but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my বন্ধু dont like জ্যায়াই at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one দিন one of my বন্ধু in chorus asked me why i like জ্যায়াই so much i told her that its what i প্রণয় and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be বন্ধু anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she ব্যক্ত " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all আপনি gotta do is talk things out and tell them how আপনি feel and if they dont accept আপনি for who আপনি are then আপনি should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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