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Ok, I'm only 14, but like last week something sunk in... that I'm gonna die one day. Then I got all depressed and kinda didnt eat much for a while. Now I'm ok, but i keep thinking "Your gonna die, and sos my mum and my dad and my brother." I dont wanna die! Does this mean I'm wierd? Now i get depressed whenever i see someone who looks lonely! Why the hell is this happening? Help me people! AND NO HATING PLEASE!
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Subhamita said:
আপনি are not gonna die!
Depression doesn't mean the end of the world....and no, আপনি are not weird, cause there are times like this in everybody's life, even in my life!
আপনি need to grab some fresh air and think over the matter buddy!
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Thanks for the help, and thanks to everybody who answered this question. it's really helped :)
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ArcticWolf said:
It happens to everybody.

The same thought had struck me at a relatively young age (I was 5) and I was always so sad and couldn't talk to anybody about it. This may seem like bad অথবা impossible advice, and আপনি don't have to listen to me, but what I say is forget about it. Instead of being sad about death, find things that make আপনি laugh. Humor always helped me - it's difficult to be sad about death অথবা every single lonely person on the planet when you're laughing really hard. (But what will also help is going over and talking to the person who looks lonely, if it's reasonable. Perhaps they're not lonely at all; আপনি never know if আপনি never ask.)

Sorry if this is sucky advice. xD It's normal to be scared অথবা saddened দ্বারা death when the realization really hits you, but it's not just you.
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ivoryphills said:
Everyone will die, eventually. But it really depends on how আপনি die; আপনি could be the lucky ones who die naturally of old age, অথবা আপনি might die of an accident. Either way, trying to worry about the inevitable is useless, and it's best to not worry about it and instead live your life.
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EalasaidWooster said:
It's ok, this is completely normal for your age, although I know that won't make আপনি feel any better. There is absolutely nothing weird about it at all, so don't worry about this point.

I've been there, and it's hard as hell - so I'll tell আপনি how I dealt with it

1) Firstly, I would recommend talking to someone আপনি trust about it, like your mum অথবা dad. I know, it's hard to talk about your feelings - আপনি probably feel lonely and panicky whenever আপনি think about it, and embarrassed at the idea of telling anyone. But I promise you, talking about it makes it so much easier to cope with! And it makes আপনি feel secure and loved, আরো importantly.

2) Another thing আপনি could do is keep a diary, and write down all of your feelings in it. At least, I've always found that this helps me. It helps to bring logic back into your thoughts, and problems always look smaller on paper!

3) I would also recommend avoiding depressing books, films, etc. Something as small as watching a funny TV প্রদর্শনী অথবা পাঠ করা a cheerful book really can lift your spirits. The বই that really help me through tough times are the Jeeves বই and the Blandings Castle বই দ্বারা P.G. Wodehouse - আপনি might want to try looking them up.

4) Finally (you'll like this one) - spoil yourself! Indulge in your favourite things. I remember that finding time to relax with good films and books, taking nice, hot baths, eating my favourite foods, etc, all helped to cheer me up. Even simple things like hot চকোলেট with marshmallows can make আপনি feel better.

I hope this helps you, even slightly. Please feel free to talk to me about this whenever আপনি like - I know exactly how it feels, and I can help you, if আপনি ever need me. :) xxx
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TOTALIzzyluver said:
haa I'm 14 too...
But seriously I just felt the same way. Last night I had a dream I died and started haunting my school. And then I woke up and thought of all the things I wanna do before I die. And I'm gonna make sure they happen. Stuff like your dream job, home, family, friends. Just think about that. I know I wanna write TV and চলচ্চিত্র and maybe act a little. And I'm not gonna stop until I get there. So just think about that. And what আপনি wanna do. Not just today অথবা tomorrow. Think about what you'll do in 10 years.
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X-Squirt-X said:
People die naturally around about 70. You've lived your life for ages, now think about this. Double your life and you're only at 28, and that's pretty young still. When you're 28, double that again and you're at 56. You've got a long way 'til the end.

But when আপনি get to the point where you're old, আপনি really don't worry about death. If আপনি live your life fully and successfully, that's all a human being needs. Nothing more. Then আপনি can lay on your death বিছানা knowing you've lived your life. That's why আপনি do well in school so আপনি don't waste আপনি life away!

And about your parents, it's the way. Other wise this world would be overly crowed. As The Lion King mentions that it's the "Circle of Life".

Hope that helps আপনি a bit! :)
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Very good points! :)
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