Seances ARE usually নিরাপদ and আপনি can either use a ouija board অথবা go to a professional who will perform it with you.
The easiest way to go is with a Ouija board-all আপনি do is get in a circle, ask a question, put your hands on the mover thing, and it will spell out the answer letter-by-letter.
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