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help!! i dont know what i should do

ok so i have depression and my mom knows that, and i even started to cut. my mom freaked out when she found out but even tho she knows i have cut(she told me to stop). she still doesnt get it. she keep asking if i was worried. she wont listen. i dont cut because im worried. i do it because my হৃদয় hurts and it makes my হৃদয় stop hurting if i cut. it has just gotten worse, my হৃদয় cuts even worse then it ever did. i just want to keep smiling so my বন্ধু dont know that something is wrong but it hurts to smile....what should i do
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ladyshela said:
Have আপনি considered talking to a professional? আপনি should relay your feelings to someone who is trained to handle these kinds of things.
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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like who? i dont have anyone and i reallty dont want to talk to my school. i hate my school. can আপনি tell me where i can talk to someone about it?
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Like someone in counseling. My mom was abused as a child and she takes medicine and goes to therpy. There's got to be a way আপনি can seek help through your guidance con.
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sexi_emo_girl said:
I dunno i cut myself to but of course my foster mother dosen't care! :( damn my life sucks! :(
*Post যেভাবে খুশী bruno mars video*
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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i sometimes think my mom doesnt care at all. one times i was upset and started crying and she ব্যক্ত "yea just sit there and cry. feel sorry for yourself"
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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That reminds me of my dad ;(
ladyshela posted বছরখানেক আগে
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:(*
ladyshela posted বছরখানেক আগে
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@starfirey232 well i dunno who my mom is and my foster mother says to me cut yourself i don't care! :(
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Shadowmarioking said:
Tell your mother how আপনি really feel. If anyone can help you, your mother can. She can help আপনি through this and get আপনি out of this rut that you're stuck in. As for your friends, tell them as well. If they truly are your friends, they're worth telling something as important as this.

The সেকেন্ড step would probably be figuring out a way to handle your depression. Counseling is always the best option, but আপনি have to consider if your depression is that bad that it requires counseling. Whichever way আপনি want to treat your depression, আপনি go for.
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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thanks but if i try yo talk to my mom i get scared and never do. its just everyone in my family thinks of my as a little girl that is sweet and doesnt know anything dirty অথবা bad. অথবা atleast i feel like they do. i feel like i have to act like someone who isnt me.
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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^That's probably because you're an introverted individual. Introverts act like their true selfs alone, but have a different personality (an extroverted self) when they're talking with other people, even family members. If আপনি want to fix your depression and get your life back on track, আপনি have to be strong and tell her the truth, no matter how scared. Human emotions are not meant to be bottled up in someone. If আপনি can't confess to someone, you'll get no better than আপনি are now.
Shadowmarioking posted বছরখানেক আগে
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your right. i have bottled up alot and its coming back up later and i dont want this to come back 10 times worse like everything else that i have bottled up
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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^My point exactly. If আপনি have to, আপনি can even talk to me about these issues. Believe me, I've had a minor depression period and I've struggled with being the bully and the bullied individual in my life, and nothing feels better than to confess to someone how.
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HaleyDewit said:
Stay away from sharp thing...
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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*things.
HaleyDewit posted বছরখানেক আগে
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i dont know if that will work
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iPsychic said:
আপনি just need to tell your mum how আপনি feel. অথবা maybe even one of your closests বন্ধু because I bet they'll always be there for you.

অথবা either; stop cutting yourself. I'm afraid that pain isn't the answer to you're problem.
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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if i stop that will make it worse. trust me
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
icuSTALKER said:
Yeah I've প্রদত্ত myself a small poke with a ছুরি to try and draw some blood and I found it doesn't work.
First, put your ছুরি away. Don't look at it, even destroy it if আপনি have to.
Second, let it all out. Cry until আপনি have no আরো tears. You'll still feel broken but try to let it roll off in your sleep. Think of your burdens and your pain rolling off your shoulders. Try to feel it doing that and take a deep breath.
Third, go to someone আপনি really trust. আপনি don't have to talk to your mom if you're not ready. Let it all out in a private meeting and ask how আপনি should word your feelings to your mom.
When আপনি feel ready, talk to your mom. Of she still doesn't understand, let her be. Maybe she has something on her mind too. Ask her if there's anything bothering her. Say আপনি need comfort and you're wondering if আপনি can spend some time with her and see how it goes.
Depending on your mom's reactions, either back off from her অথবা continue on the road for আপনি to heal and try to talk to her more.
Don't look at the knife. Find the good in your mother. Think 'who will I miss if I'm sad অথবা feeling devastated?' It might help আপনি feel wanted and such.
Don't give up and keep pursuing. Do something আপনি really like to do.
:)
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1 and 2 wont work, 3, have talked to my best friend. and i প্রণয় my mom, i dont hate her অথবা anything, but she doesnt understand sometimes and it didnt work for আপনি to cut but it helps me. it will get worse if i dont
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
Jamie_Blue said:
I recommend talking to a professional. It really helps to be able to express what you're going through to someone. I have intrusive thoughts and I found that talking helped immensely.
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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ok ill try it
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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if i ever find a prifessional to talk to because im not going to talk to my school
starfirey232 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Yeah go for it. Don't be afraid to cry either, it's all a part of feeling better. I believe in you, go for it!
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ilovemichael17 said:
i have a friend who had the situation so try to distract yourself from your depression if that doesn't work then see a professional for help
hope আপনি get better:)
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