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Do আপনি think 12 and under children should have a boyfriend/ girlfriend

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If they do it before they're 12, they're less likely to get pregnant.
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@simmeh xD
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if they get a boyfriend অথবা a girlfriend, that doesnt mean theyre gonna.....you know, do what teen bfs and gfs do....
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8theGreat said:
Pfft, no. But that certainly isn't going to stop them.


When I was in elementary school, people started "dating" and being "boyfriend and girlfriend" as early as the সেকেন্ড grade, if not earlier. Everyone in my grade was all one class, so দ্বারা the time I was in the 5th grade, everyone had "dated" everyone at least twice. (Myself and a handful of other people excluded. I was the outcast of my class.)


As far as I could see, it was a bunch of dumb idiots trying to play house with some weird, drama, inbreeding type crap going on. Nobody had any idea what they were doing, though they sure as hell acted like they did.

Dating at that age is silly in most situations. There are very few people of that age that I know of that could really, truly comprehend something like that.
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CUE THE LONG WINDED PARAGRAPH LONG SPEECH.
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I read stuff like that all the time... Don't worry, I appreciate the brownie. ;)
Bond_Of_Fury posted বছরখানেক আগে
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My friend really does truley comprehend the meaning of a relationship
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
Sure, I don't see what's wrong with that. As long as they won't do certain stuff that older couples do.

EDIT: lol, এল-মৃত্যু পত্র প্রণয় how everyone here is talking about about a grown-up relationship. As if two 9 year-olds ever would have one. They won't, period. Children of that age just aren't mature enough to comprehend what it means to love each other. It's useless to even discuss that, it's sort of a fact.

But I had lots girlfriends back in kindergarten. We didn't প্রণয় each other অথবা make out, অথবা whichever mature stuff the peeps who wrote above me all think about. We drew together, we played with LEGOs, that sort of thing.

I প্রণয় how আপনি guys instantly have an opinion ready without thinking it through entirely. Children would throw their lives away দ্বারা getting a boyfriend অথবা girlfriend? That's like saying children would devote their lives to other children... As if that would happen. Not cool.

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Lmao ikr...
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agreed here.
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I agree but they should just তারিখ and do things peole thier age do. One আরো thing, How can 8 বছর olds have sex if they dont even know what sex is really all about?(Reproduction)
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8xchristellax8 said:
bleh what the fuck do those kids need a boyfriend/girlfriend for? jeez just enjoy being a kid! so no, i dont think kids 12 and under need a "love life". they just make themselves look like future dead beats and hoes.
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Wolfdreamer9 said:
as long as they're hopefully not having sex....
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My point in a nutshell.
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jeniffer2200 said:
I guess crushing on someone in the age of 12 is fine but dating?

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Dreamtime said:
what...Hell no
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directioner0550 said:
Yea... My friend is very mature and has gotten very serious with her boyfriend. They have been dating since summer and shes turning 13 this Christmas. And প্রণয় is not about age, its about maturity as the bible says. If they feel they are ready to তারিখ and parents are okay with it, its fine.
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Im actually 14 and I got my first boyfriend a few months ago.
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Congrats!
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Thanks হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ
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hetalianstella said:
No of course not!

Why do আপনি need one at that age? Be a freaking kid while আপনি still are a kid!
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আপনি never 'need' a relationship.
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True
hetalianstella posted বছরখানেক আগে
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im always a kid OwO
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^ হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ সেকেন্ড that >ω<
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Heck no.

I find it rather sad and disgusting that preteens and younger are dating and even engaging in sexual acts.

99% of them aren't mature enough for a relationship, and don't understand them

But sadly, they don't give a shiz , and keep on doing it, and then they get pregnant.

My best friend wouldn't mind losing her virginity at 14, which is crazy in so many ways.

It's sadden me greatly. Kids shouldn't feel the sexual pressure to date.
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*sigh* I know a thirteen বছর old in my town who got pregnant. And another 12 বছর old who even says she's done it. I agree, It's highly disturbing to hear about this kind of stuff.
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Don't be biased then. Just because you've witnessed an example doesn't mean আপনি should comb everyone with the same brush. Guys I've known in sixth grade were nothing like that.
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@bond it's kind of hard not to be when every 6th grader i known of met has had a gf/bf and has made out with them, the kids in my town aren't the greatest.
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EMO_GIRLZ said:
No.
Children are too young to understand the facts of love/relationships.
It's honestly gross how some kids (13 অথবা under) are sexually active. I mean..It's a pretty big regret for a orgasm that'll last 3 seconds.
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right! just last week i overheard this girl saying how she walked in on her 13 বছর old brother having sex with some girl. like come on seriously?
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I blame Sex Ed teachers at school. They should Atleast teach kids about sex when there ATLEAST in 12th grade. 6th to 8th grade? Kids become too interested at that age. So it's basically like the parents/teachers WANT them to make mistakes.
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Into his own needs?
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Makeupdiva said:
No, in my opinion I don't think boys/girls would even know the meaning of having a boyfriend/girlfriend. Kids should wait until they are old enough.
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Exactly! That's what I told my বন্ধু in middle school!
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ShadowFan100 said:
No! Just..hell no!

Kids should never be involved in such adult things. Period. Relationships and sexual crap are for adults only...that's what adults do. Kids? They play video games, school, have friends, and other kid things. Not relationships.....

Anyone who dares tell a child about "adult things" and let em go out and do those things should be punished somehow. Jail maybe...LET KIDS BE KIDS! Don't ruin their lives...
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Crazy8s17 said:
Ah hell nah! They dont even know the meaning of love! Thay aint mature enough either! Im sorry to say that but its true... my parents wont let us তারিখ till we're 15... I think we should be able to তারিখ when we're at LEAST 13 if not 14. Its really gross to think 1st graders can date... and maybe চুম্বন *shivers* I cant even stand seeing 7th graders in the hall স্নেহ চুম্বন eachother! Imagine seeing 1st graders doing that! *twitches eye* its disgusting e.o
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yo124 said:
yes.
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W.T.F.
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I really think its up to the parents
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But seriously wtf
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....
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doodle_the_mice said:
like what a person i know would say "hell to the no!!!!"
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IceCreamCastle said:
What is a boyfriend/girlfriend to them? I mean like they probably wouldn't do anything... but just in case no...
































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IDK!!!!!!!!!!!
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Lol, I thought my page had trouble লোড হচ্ছে when I read your answer... XD
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Zoie-styles said:
i would say no ,
but honestly they can do anything they want to do in their প্রণয় life its their choice not anyone elses
my first bf was when i was in বছর 3 but it did not really work out coz we were too young!!!!!
i say no
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It may be their choice but that doesn't mean it's be right -_- that's like, if a criminal tried to kill u and u let him cuz it's "his right". No...if children do that, they're making a horrible mistake
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^ Haha, nicely found, but you're tqalking about a criminal act now, while there's nothing really wrong with two kids being boy- and girlfriend.
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BeatleBug said:
No. This goes without saying.
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 No. This goes without saying.
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Poker face!
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Nice.
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klaine_forever said:
Probably not. Its alright if they're just holding hands in the playground but anything is is ridiculous
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ErnieHannah333 said:
Who cares if they তারিখ each other অথবা not. It's not like they're being in a serious relationship, it's hardly even serious in middle school when you're 14. And for the record, people in other countries, and also in the USA in the past have gotten married, not just "dating" at around 12 অথবা at a younger age.
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Bluekait said:
Let's state the most obivous answer : if they are not in high school অথবা college, than they should not have a relationship. A little kid's হৃদয় is easier to break than a 14 বছর old's. If they are holding hands, that is fine. I know somebody that goes to one boyfriend to another, doing it to each one. She being doing it since the 6th grade.
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 Let's state the most obivous answer : if they are not in high school অথবা college, than they should not have a relationship. A little kid's হৃদয় is easier to break than a 14 বছর old's. If they are holding hands, that is fine. I know somebody that goes to one boyfriend to another, doing it to each one. She being doing it since the 6th grade.
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MyBlueDragon said:
no

at my old school ppl started to get together দ্বারা the age of 8. it wasn't serious at all. but i still don't get y kids went around the school & did this.

girl: can we get together?
guy: sure

THE END

after that, they didn't speak, they didn't hang out any আরো than they did before. then after a while one of them would break up.

i can't see any danger in this... but... WHY!? if you're not talking then...
i just don't get it.

i wouldn't get this so i never asked anyone, but almost everyone else did.

when we were about 12 ppl started to get a "real" bf/gf. but the only thing the guys wanted was a girl with expensive clothes & a lot of make-up.
i don't think they ever did something they shouldn't have but they still didn't understand what it meant to have someone like that.

i'm 16 now & i've never had a bf. i'm doing fine without one & i don't feel like i need one anytime soon either.
i don't want a fake realtionship. i want a real one with a guy i really like.

i just haven't met him yet.
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I bet you'll get one before I do. ;D
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^aw don't worry
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LadyEmzy16 said:
I'm 14 and my boyfriend (he's 15) and I have been dating since I was 12 and we in NO WAY think of doing what older couples do.

There for I state my point in saying that 12 and over can date,but under 12s should just keep daydreaming.
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Simmeh said:
Wait 'til you're at least 13. দ্বারা then, you're an adult and আপনি can do whatever the hell আপনি want.
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You're an adult when you're thirteen? Please, explain.
Bond_Of_Fury posted বছরখানেক আগে
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At least matured enough to date, that's when I started.
shadowlover3000 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I'm almost 15 and I still consider myself a kid.
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ssook78 said:
no they should not
but in 5th grade they started dating ._.
so yea
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KaulitZfan said:
wll no not realy maybe if thaer 15 অথবা 16 then ok but im 15 i i want a boyfriend
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zoey010 said:
no
it sounds dumb.
why would আপনি break your হৃদয় at the age of 12 অথবা something?
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I got my হৃদয় broken at 10. The guy I liked didn't like me back. It's been several years since then and I still don't have a boyfriend. I guess it's 'cause I'm not human.
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@simmeh don't call yourself something you're not. আপনি weren't a human, than আপনি wouldn't be typing those
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There's this fugly girl at my school yet she has already dated 22 guys
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101trx said:
uh, no.
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seffro said:
As long as both are around the same age and one of them isn't a 40 বছর old I don't really care
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So a 39 বছর old would be okay.
Simmeh posted বছরখানেক আগে
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@Simmeh: No, because then they wouldn't be around the same age...
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Lovehinagurl44 said:
No they should be concerned about having fun and being around friends. I wasn't concerned about dating during that age range,but I know other kids at my school were.
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prod4ever said:
i had my first one at 10 but u guys make me feel horrible :(
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I'm sure nothing sexual happened. Don't let a few opinions keep আপনি down.
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yappy24 said:
Well when i was 4 i had a crush... and after that every বছর it was a different guy until about 4th/5th grade... so ya kids 12 and under SHOULD NOT তারিখ অথবা even have crushes... =.=
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they can have crushes
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even on movie stars
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Logan lerman!
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Crushes are natural things, আপনি can't just not have a crush on someone.
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yaz said:
NO!!!! NO NO and NO!!!! only platonic friends.
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boytoy_84 said:
No! They're too young to get involved in a relationship. It's okay to be just বন্ধু but not boyfriend/girlfriend প্রণয় type of way. I have a niece who has a boyfriend and she's 15 1/2 and he's about 16. Her first boyfriend was two years পূর্বে but they weren't in প্রণয় অথবা anything, just puppylove. in my opinion, kids 12 and under are just too young to fall in প্রণয় with a crush অথবা a close friend. 15 অথবা older is okay to have a first kiss. 18 and older it's okay to go to বিছানা with someone they like as long they have protection. I feel 20 years and older is the best age to have sex.
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Book-Freak said:
No
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shadowlover3000 said:
I personally think no, but প্রণয় is unlocked through the maturity of the mind, not the age of the body.
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Wise words my friend
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exactly age doesn't dertmin whether someone can understand something অথবা not.
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Indeed, I started at 13. When your ready, your ready.
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NikkiLovesMJ said:
well let's just say that it's okay to have a ''childlish প্রণয় relationship'' , দ্বারা that I mean that they চুম্বন eachother , hold hands and play অথবা just have a crush on eachother , just not having sex and shit like that at that age O.o you'll never know at which age you'll fall in প্রণয় , so yeah this প্রশ্ন doesn't really have an anwser.
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XxTheBeatlesxX said:
Hell no! That's totally unacceptable in my opinion. It's not cute to me, just plain weird.
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--sherry- said:
Well it's actually up to the parents if they think their child অথবা kids are ready for a relationship, then they are but they aren't then they'll have have to wait until they're older to date.
But if your parents don't even care, then wow u either are spoiled to do অথবা have whatever u want.
অথবা your parents just dont give a damn about u অথবা what u do.
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jester616 said:
No, but as Bond pointed out, children under the age of 12 will consider themselves bf/gf if they sit together at lunch everyday, অথবা play together at recess. Usually the আরো "adult" aspects don't enter into the picture.

I have a 10 বছর old son who has plenty of girl friends; they like the same stuff(Legos, তারকা Wars), and there is nothing sexual going on. He is just not interested yet. He has asked me প্রশ্ন about sex, and if I've প্রদত্ত too much info, he lets me know.

Which leads me to another point: adults will sometimes, perhaps inadvertently, make kids feel pressured into relationships. How many times will a boy and a girl play together, doing something neutral, an adult will then মতামত about the "relationship?" It happens so often, at least from my observations, that it's a wonder that boys and girls ever play together.

One last thought: the kids I've known who have been preciously sexually active have all been sexually abused.
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precociously!
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Ciara-the-Gecko said:
A lot of আপনি are being dirty minded.

Relationship =/= Sex.

In a child's mind, as many MANY other people have said, dating is probably meeting up every দিন and talking. They won't comprehend the ideas of sex, at all. Of course, the media talks of those few cases where they do আরো than when they don't, which gives the impression that everyone knows about sex at a hideously young age.

So, in my mind, as long as it's not an "adult" relationship, it's absolutely fine. ^^
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kitmolly123 said:
Most of আপনি say no and are actually concerned about sex and stuff?
But in general, kids under 12 wouldn't think about having that soon, I mean especially in the type of society we live in today, I think they would know better. And if they do have boyfriends and girlfriends, it's not like any sexual stuff. I find that to be very cute considering most of my বন্ধু did that back in elementary school. But yeah, there's nothing wrong with it at all and they should be able to have them.
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iamagagamonster said:
They can have a boy that's a friend and/or a girl that's a friend... but I don't think 12 and under should have any boyfriends/girlfriends... that's sickening..
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