যেভাবে খুশী

এই প্রশ্নের উত্তর দিন

যেভাবে খুশী প্রশ্ন

Help! I need উপদেশ on how to tell my non christian bf that I won't have sex until I'm married

Yes, I'm posting this in আরো than one spot because I need some help. I don't expect to actually find real উপদেশ on this spot though, but it's worth a try... It doesn't matter whether you're christian অথবা not, I want as much উপদেশ as I can.

Hi, I'm a 20 years old christian and I've been dating a guy who's not christian for about a month. Whenever we're together we cuddle and চুম্বন and I can see that he wants us to go further and have sex (which is the most normal thing for a couple nowadays), but even if I also want to, I always stop it there because I don't want to have sex until I'm married.

How can I tell him in the smoothest possible way? I just don't want him to be mad at me. If he can't stand this and wants to break up, that's okay because this is important for my beliefs but I just don't want him to get angry... We haven't talked about religion at all yet.
 Vertigo42 posted বছরখানেক আগে
next question »

যেভাবে খুশী উত্তর

herpinaderpson said:
Just go ahead and tell him right away.
If he actually loves you, he will understand. If he pesters আপনি about having sex, maybe it's the time to find another guy.
I also am non-christian, and if I were a guy, I would respect my gf.
select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
*
That's almost exactly what I was going to say.
Hamuko posted বছরখানেক আগে
summer2987 said:
just go up too him and say

"bitch আপনি aint getting non of dis till theres a damn ring on my finger . "

and if he starts with that " but babe i প্রণয় আপনি "

slap him , and slap him hard , because if he tries to stop আপনি from doing what আপনি think is right , অথবা what আপনি think is comfortable then he does'nt প্রণয় আপনি at all .


easy as pie .
 select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
*
being an illiterate দুশ্চরিত্রা 101
polarwagon15 posted বছরখানেক আগে
*
.......
summer2987 posted বছরখানেক আগে
*
no need to cuss .
summer2987 posted বছরখানেক আগে
mish_mish said:
tell him আপনি dont wanna do it before marriage....and if he's only with u for sex...well then good riddance!
select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
sarabeara said:
First off, I commend আপনি on your resolve and sticking to your beliefs.

Now for the উপদেশ part. Other than honesty and trust, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Just be direct with him and tell him how you're feeling. If he doesn't respect your beliefs and gets angry then he's a douche and আপনি should be glad আপনি found out the type of person he is. আপনি should probably have this talk with him sooner rather than later, because আপনি don't want him to feel as if আপনি were leading him on অথবা anything.
 select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
MineTurtle said:
Just say 'no'! Yeah, I know it's easier ব্যক্ত than done, but it will be worth it.
Any guy that truly loves you, will respect that wish and wait.
If he refuses to respect your wish, then the relationship's not worth it.
I know that sounds harsh, but if আপনি keep going, it could hurt the both of you. (Physically, spiritually and emotionally).
Hope that helps!
 select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
CameronLovesNny said:
dude if ur bf only wants sex than just wait until God works his mysterious ways to find a perfect bf for u so yeah pray tht ur bf will understand and tht he will not pressure u into having sex with him thts just wrong tht he keeps asking u n not understanding also i'm a satanist so yeah i am a satanist a good one
select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
zanhar1 said:
Just tell him how আপনি feel. It's your body and your religion আপনি get to decide when you're ready. If he loves আপনি he will understand and respect your decision.
 select as best answer
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
boytoy_84 said:
See my answer :
link
 select as best answer
See my answer : http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/sex-and-sexuality/answers/show/479251/help-how-tell-non-christian-boyfriend-dont-want-sex-until-im-married
posted বছরখানেক আগে 
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!