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Eye Contact

If আপনি are talking to someone, DO NOT EVER not make eye contact. Look them straight in the eye! It may feel awkward and embarrassing, but that is a technique and a skill that people not only admire, but make আপনি look professional. It is also sometimes conscidered rude not to make eye contact!

Conversion
If আপনি are alone, and a person পরবর্তি to আপনি অথবা near আপনি is a alone (and of course, a classmate), then talk about school like:
You: Hi! Did আপনি finish that English essay? It was so hard

Person: blah blah english blah blah essay blah

Talking about something that the two can relate to drags the conversation, and just keep going. Ask question, tell facts, keep asking for their opinion.

Never appear to be Angry অথবা distressed when আপনি are not

People don't really want to associate with someone who appears angry out of fear of being lashed অথবা being annoying, so try to look happy and welcoming!


Don't use your phone in the middle of a conversation

It is rude and makes আপনি appear uninterested. Phones can wait, conversations can't.

Last but not least

Never appear shy অথবা scarred

Being shy অথবা scarred makes আপনি vulnerable, be bold, daring, and face the unknown with a smile.

The world is yours! So take a deep breath, be confident, and create a conversation with people. Good luck!!!

actually usually i really really really really really dont like talking about this but ,

when i was little my mom died and i got really sad and depressed and so did my dad . my dad started to drink and would ignore me and my siblings all the time. do i would do " bad things " to get his attention and eventually i became a really bad person , he died then i moved with my older sister . which is where i am now actually . my sister isnt the best but whatever .

the point is that before my mom died my family used to be happy and i used to be , believe it অথবা not , probably the sweetest and most energetic person আপনি would of ever meet .

noq im just a screw up , i mean my family was one .

my উপদেশ to আপনি , is to just be happy , it doesnt matter what type of person আপনি are. whatever makes আপনি truley happy and loved দ্বারা yourself is really all that matters. just because youre shy and maybe a total loser doesnt mean youre gonna die.

maybe thats just who আপনি are , and if not then okay . work on it , find real বন্ধু that are there for আপনি 100% and talk to them in person. and then youll be really happy knowing that আপনি have people to fall back on.