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Why do আপনি think this is?

Alright, so আপনি know when someone loses a loved one অথবা has some other misfortune befall on them others will say "I will pray for you" অথবা "they're in a better place"? Well I have seen some people actually get mad when people say these things. Now I get that those people don't believe in religion, of course, and that's fine, everyone should believe, and not believe, in whatever they want. What I don't get is why they get so angry over someone trying to comfort them in their own way. Why do আপনি think that is?
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Canada24 said:
Because people are assholes
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xD
Servamp posted বছরখানেক আগে
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True and to the point.
EgoMouse posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Thanks for saying so i didn't have to.
BlindBandit92 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Also this !!!!
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EgoMouse said:
Because people tend to get offended দ্বারা everything. They focus আরো on the words than the motives, especially if it conflicts with their beliefs.
I've gotten through that weird religion hating phase (but I guess hate is a strong word here, just generally not liking it).
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Servamp said:
-I guess some people feel this way because if আপনি accept sympathy, then আপনি must acknowledge that আপনি have a loss. So if আপনি want to be in denial, sympathy is the last thing আপনি want to accept.
- Sympathy can feel like pity and nobody wants to be pitied.
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^ This !!!!
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
Some people are assholes.
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Zeppie said:
Mainly because many people choose to be offended দ্বারা almost anything.

But in their defense, the only reason why I'd imagine they'd get mad at that response is because they're not in a stable place of mind, they হারিয়ে গেছে someone they loved and some people get angry and hostile while they're grieving, others are আরো passive and quiet.

But if they do react that way, just leave it be and give them space. Grief can change people so wait for them to handle it in their time.
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