Think
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Realization. Even though it may seem impossible, the truth is, nothing is impossible. If আপনি keep thinking it's impossible, then it will be. Have faith
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Analyze the situation. Create a তালিকা of "pros" and "cons" to help আপনি better understand why you're seeking প্রণয় অথবা acceptance from this person.
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Don't worry about things আপনি can't help. Acknowledge the impossibility as something that is totally out of your hands (ex: marriage, age, sexuality, hang-ups) and know that if something is meant to be, it will be.
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Don't take it personally. Perceiving the situation as a personal attack, is not advised. There is no point দ্বারা contemplating why. In fact, it may create a mysterious attraction to them therefore prolonging infatuation, not to mention causing আপনি a world of pain.
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Plan wisely. Set aside a time for any duration. দ্বারা reflecting, not brooding, আপনি gain insight for your পরবর্তি possible crush.
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Admit আপনি have a crush. Allow yourself to feel it. If আপনি don't, আপনি are at risk for "Romeo and Juliet Syndrome". The forbidden প্রণয় possibility becomes আরো attractive.
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Don't dwell. Instead, go out and make new friends, অথবা hang out with the old, But never be mean about them! It will only get back to them and then আপনি will have হারিয়ে গেছে a friend.
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সরানো on. Remember that it's not the end of the world. Someone else may share your feelings, but this specific person just wasn't the right one. Just remember that its a crush-no matter how strong.
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Mesmerizing. When আপনি start remembering good times আপনি had with your crush, immediately find something else to focus your energy and time on. Don't allow yourself to wallow in self pity for too long.
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Be honest. Tell them how আপনি feel. If আপনি find out that he অথবা she doesn't have any feelings for you, it will be easier for আপনি to get over it.
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Avoid anger. They didn't do anything wrong and getting angry is just going to push them further away and destroy your friendship. Come to terms with the fact that it isn't their fault they aren't attracted to আপনি that way. This is hard, but a few tears (or a few buckets of tears), a few chick-flicks and treats and a few peppy songs আপনি can dance to will keep আপনি on your feet.
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Keep in mind, if আপনি are madly and hopelessly in love/lust, be patient. Don't be too clingy, but continue on as normal, being your wonderful self and প্রদর্শনী him/her how awesome আপনি are. He/She might just realize one দিন that they have been blind this whole time and confess their love; after all, প্রণয় is just friendship on fire.
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Understand that if all else fails, think about how devastated আপনি would be if the two of আপনি started dating/getting serious and then broke up. Think of that when আপনি get that feeling. Keep in mind how important your friendship is.
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It's not healthy to keep hoping they will one দিন feel the same. Try to emancipate yourself from them for a while so that আপনি can rid yourself of your feelings for them, because if আপনি don't, the time আপনি spend around them will be tense and bittersweet.
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Avoid thinking about them. You'll only feel worse if আপনি do. Meet new people, talk to your friends.
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Instead of fantasizing about how great things could be with your crush, pick someone else. Imagine how great things would be with them. You've probably been doing this with your crush for so long that imagining being in a relationship with someone new might be the breath of fresh air আপনি need to get the ball rolling on getting over him/her.
Act
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Maintain some type of distance. While being close to someone may stir emotions, avoiding someone who is regularly seen definitely will. If the person is close, either request "space" অথবা continue normal activities. If the person is not, keep a distance, but not a "duck-and-cover" type of avoidance.
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Spend time with the person. আপনি will see their negative qualities, which will be beyond what আপনি can ভালুক if you're not meant to be.
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Look at them closely. Find the physical flaws. And then think... "He/She's not that hot! What am I thinking?!" And find someone that আপনি can get, and still be বন্ধু with your crush.
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Stop fantasizing about them! They aren't important. They don't define who আপনি are, that's your job.
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Remember that this person is not the end of the world. Someone else may feel the way আপনি do about YOU. Just remember that its a crush--no matter how strong.
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Focus on the trait of theirs that is your least favorite. That means, if he is so perverted and আপনি don't like it, অথবা if she is self-centered and আপনি can't stand it, focus. It will allow আপনি to see him/her as what he/she is, as well as get আপনি over him/her.
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When আপনি start remembering a good time আপনি had with your crush, convince yourself it wasn't all that great দ্বারা remembering a much better time আপনি experienced with someone else.
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Ask yourself a reason why আপনি want to get over it. Are আপনি married/in another relationship? If so, it's easier to prioritize if আপনি think it through.
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Try to minimize contact with your crush.
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Focus on your other interests.
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Go to the gym and work out. Get your mind off of it and feel better about yourself.
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Find comic relief. See the humorous side to things, read comic বই অথবা deep thoughts before আপনি go to bed.
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Make an exciting change to make yourself feel sexy. Treat your self to a hair-cut, অথবা a new outfit. Make yourself feel confident.
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ক্রুশ out অথবা erase his/her name anywhere আপনি might have written it (e.g your notebook, your textbook, the দেওয়াল of your bedroom, etc.)
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Avoid all eye contact with them and try not to look longingly at his/her nose. You'll be আরো likely to get over the crush if আপনি aren't always staring at him/her.
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Act a bit আরো unpleasant around them than your usual temperament. They may act unpleasant back and won't seem as attractive to you, but be warned, আপনি may lose out on a relationship with another person if আপনি are too mean.
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আপনি know আপনি will see this person again. They are your best friend and আপনি don't want to lose them. Try to your time with them and start spending time with other people (namely ones of the sex আপনি are attracted to). Start dating and don't feel obligated to your best friend, they're not dating you.
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Learn from the experience and come out stronger.
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Accept! Always remember that the toughest part will be to observe your best friend be normal around আপনি while আপনি could struggle to do so. There is no way around it but to accept that everything cannot possibly be reciprocated.
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Try falling out of love/lust. Make lists of all the things that go against being attracted to him/her - প্রণয় is blind, try to voluntarily open your eyes.
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Don't let them see how upset আপনি are. If they know, it'll only make them feel bad and they might start avoiding you. Act like nothing happened and maybe mention another person আপনি think is hot. If they start liking আপনি back, then that's great. Hope it all works out. If they don't, then just keep this up until আপনি find someone else.
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Consider the possibility of letting them see আপনি with someone else. Act nicely. Sometimes people don't realize what they could have had until the opportunity is gone. If they don't start liking আপনি back at this point, it's really time to stop crushing on them and meet new people.
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Remember that if they liked আপনি but changed their minds at the last minute, আপনি shouldn't get angry অথবা blame things on them. Your friendship should be strong enough to not let something like that keep a good thing down.
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Accept it. Whether your window of opportunity came and went, অথবা they're just not into you, acknowledge the reality of the situation. Tell yourself the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
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সরানো on. Make a promise to yourself to get over it. If you're পাঠ করা this article, you're ready to take this step, so just do it.
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Reassure yourself. Look in the mirror every morning, smile, and tell yourself, "You're worth it." Really mean it. আপনি didn't do anything wrong, and right now there's someone else out there for you. And it always helps to remind yourself that they are the ones that are going to be missing out on you.
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Maintain your decision. If আপনি find yourself slipping, remember the promise আপনি made to yourself.
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Associate. If and when আপনি catch yourself thinking about your crush, pick out something about them that আপনি dislike, and focus on it. Be honest. আপনি may have built a ফ্যান্টাসি of them in your head, but in reality they're not as great.
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Distract yourself. Go out with your বন্ধু and have fun. Meet new people. Find a প্রদর্শনী অথবা a game to immerse yourself in. Keep yourself busy and happy.
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Take care of yourself. Keep well-groomed and put on your best clothes. It will do wonders for your self-esteem. Remember step three.
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Find someone else. It can be difficult to get over someone if you're sitting there alone on Friday nights. Instead, call up that girl/guy আপনি have History class with who always smiles at you.
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Live life. You're a great person and he/she was a fool not to see that. Before আপনি know it you'll be back on track.
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Get it out. A good cry always helps. just let your feelings pour out and before আপনি know it. He/She will be just a thing of the past.
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If আপনি can not get over it try to do the stuff আপনি প্রণয় like video games tv পাঠ করা অথবা whatever. Think about upcoming events that will make আপনি happy. This may seem weird but it works 91 percent of the time


Tips
•    Really focus on trying to find another boy/girl that you're interested in. It's hard to stop loving him/her when they're the only one আপনি see. But don't neglect your best friend.
•    If আপনি are upset after finding out they don't like you, talk to someone আপনি trust, like a friend অথবা counselor, about how আপনি feel. Tell them how you're hurt and ask for advice. Holding things in makes আপনি depressed, and that can make everything much worse.
•    Tell him/her as soon as possible that আপনি have feelings for them. Waiting only makes it worse. It's not fair to আপনি to have to keep it in, and আপনি can't get over them until আপনি know they don't feel the same way. It'll get worse before it gets better, but it will get better. And who knows? They may even confess to liking আপনি back!
•    Still be বন্ধু with them. It's not fun to lose a friend because of a problem in a relationship and it's even harder with a best friend. Once আপনি do get over them, you'll be glad আপনি guys are still friends.
•    Since they are your best friend আপনি probably see them everyday at school so try to just kind of be yourself and act normal. It is hard but if he/she is your best friend then আপনি were probably a little আরো comfortable around him/her to begin with so just act normal and don't try to impress him/her অথবা make them like আপনি back. It does not work!
•    Try not to tell your বন্ধু about it because they will only tell everyone else and it will get to him/her and make them feel very uncomfortable. It only makes it worse.
•    Some songs might make আপনি feel sad, but listening to others like, "Teardrops On My Guitar" দ্বারা Taylor সত্বর might make আপনি accept the concept that your crush might not like you.
•    Do nott listen to প্রণয় songs অথবা slow songs. It can cause আপনি to become desperate.
•    Make sure you're over them when you're not around them AND when আপনি are. Sometimes you'll find that আপনি have gotten over them during a time apart, but the সেকেন্ড they come up to you, আপনি fall for them again.
•    Don't tell them আপনি প্রণয় them if আপনি know for sure that they only want to be friends. This could damage the friendship.
•    Don't overindulge on treats. আপনি will feel even আরো depressed in the morning.
•    Whatever আপনি do, do not cut contact with the person. Because they aren't in প্রণয় with you, when আপনি avoid them they will eventually just hang out with other people, causing a rift between আপনি two. This can be hard to fix and can ruin any hopes of being close বন্ধু again.
•    Try to be thankful for the wonderful friendship আপনি have, always wanting আরো could destroy your friendship.
•    Don't try to change yourself to become what আপনি think is attractive to the other person - they will only see আপনি as fake and insecure, a person who is not fun to be with, even as friends!
•    Don't attempt to make them jealous - if they really only see আপনি as a friend, স্নেহ চুম্বন another guy/girl in front of them won't really affect them, and you'll just end up feeling regretful and disappointed with yourself later.
•    If আপনি do tell them, don't automatically assume how they're going to react. This sometimes makes আপনি seem extremely foolish. If you're good enough friends, this might not affect your relationship as much as আপনি think.
•    Delete their phone number.
•    Did আপনি have a certain route in the hallway that আপনি took to class where আপনি ran into your crush? অথবা maybe it was a hangout that আপনি always saw him/her. Attempt to avoid these places because the আরো আপনি don't see your crush the easier it will be to get over them!
•    You have to remember that your crush for a boy/girl will just come and go. And if আপনি kept thinking about him/her, just say this to yourself "There is not only one but many fishes in the water."
•    If your crush doesn't like আপনি for who আপনি are, well, all I can say is that he/she will "REGRET" someday.
•    Listen to inspiring songs like, "Forget You" দ্বারা Cee Lo Green.

Warnings
•    Try not to get too depressed. It will be hard, but remember that life keeps going and it's better to go at the same speed.
•    Don't stay alone for too long, you'll get bored and start thinking of the person.
•    Don't keep thinking of the person. The আরো আপনি think about them, the আরো likely আপনি are to stay attached to them.
•    Don't become bitter! Just because the person doesn't like আপনি in that way doesn't mean আপনি can be unfriendly towards them. Don't let your pride get wounded! Sometimes people just aren't right for one another! It says nothing about who আপনি are.
•    Don't let your self-esteem drop. আপনি are still a wonderful person who deserves to be loved; this just wasn't the one who could প্রণয় আপনি in that way. আপনি will find many though who can. So keep faith in yourself!
•    Don't break down অথবা প্রদর্শনী aggression if the person tells আপনি he/she is in a relationship with someone.
•    Don't demand the person about ending a relationship with a significant other.
•    Don't jump into another serious relationship too soon. তারিখ for fun, তারিখ someone আপনি normally wouldn't have been interested in, have some fun as a single person. Seeing that there are plenty of people out there who want to be with আপনি will help আপনি সরানো on and feel better about yourself.
•    Don't do anything outright mean অথবা embarrassing. The goal is to get over your crush, not make your neighbor's life a living nightmare, অথবা to lose out on other potential relationships.
•    Do not become rude অথবা disrespectful around them. Treat them like a normal human being.
•    If the two of আপনি are বন্ধু on MySpace অথবা a similar site, consider taking them off your buddy তালিকা অথবা at least removing your subscription to them. When আপনি see a bulletin they've পোষ্ট হয়েছে অথবা a blog they wrote, just skip past it.
•    Don't talk to them when you're under the influence of alcohol. আপনি will say something আপনি regret.
•    Remember not to gossip অথবা talk bad about them behind their back, because it will come back to haunt you.