Step one: Before
•Clean up before hand, no one wants a guy with greasy hair and an unappealing smell
•Don’t put on too much cologne. A little bit is fine but a lot quickly becomes repulsive. A tip: any amount of “Ax” is too much
•Come up with some ideas for conversations to smooth through awkward silences
•Have some ideas on where to go and what to do, it will make আপনি seem আরো on শীর্ষ of the situation, but don’t decide of a place, she may not like it.
•Always, always, always have a jacket
Step two: During
•Show up no later than ten মিনিট late, and never be early. If আপনি told her eight, she plans on having until eight to get ready, and if you’re late it will seem like আপনি don’t care
•Compliment her! She spent a while getting ready and she wants to know it was worth it. Make it something from the heart, not “You look so sexy/hot”
•It never hurts to open up the car door.
•Say আপনি thought you’d go to _______. Choose a place with a wide verity of food, so she can find something she likes
•Expensive is not always better, she will feel guilty if আপনি drop a lot of money
*Don't make it a quiz, with a bunch of প্রশ্ন starting with what, how why, ect. Start a real conversationg, wit ha few প্রশ্ন sprinkled in. YOu will get to know her overtime
•Avoid pick up lines, though the fake-yawn to put your arm around us is tolerated, lines like “did it hurt when আপনি fell from heaven” are not
•If it’s cold, the জ্যাকেট আপনি brought is around her shoulders. It’s a sweet gesture that will always give আপনি শ্রদ্ধার্ঘ্য for the future
•Avoid talk about any “ex” she may feel used, অথবা like a trophy. Both are undesirable
Step three: After
•If you’re planning to চুম্বন her good bye অথবা say something sweat, do so in the car. Her father is most likely waiting for a way to embarrass আপনি and anything আরো moderate than a hand-shake will not be acceptable
•Make it clear আপনি had a good time but don’t offer a সেকেন্ড তারিখ unless আপনি are sure she wants one too.
•Don’t চুম্বন unless the mood is right, but make it memorable
•Walk her to the door
•After walking back to your car, take one last look at her house and smile. She’ll be watching and will most likely smile back.
Step four: The future
•Don’t treat her as a trophy, talk to her, be with her, but don’t parade her around
•Kissing/hugging in front of your বন্ধু means a lot, but in front of hers could be risky, like everything, test the waters before making big moves
•Stand up for her, ask her for advice, and make sure she never doubts how আপনি feel
•If আপনি cheat on her, আপনি sure as hell will get your গাধা kicked, দ্বারা both her, her friends, and the one আপনি cheated with. She will find out eventually
•If আপনি lie to her, আপনি sure as hell will get your গাধা kicked
•Doing something sweet and romantic will almost always make up for forgotten birthdays/anniversaries
•Sometimes, she just needs a shoulder to cry on
Remember, আপনি may think the work is done after the first date, but really the war has just begun. Girls are not some trophy to be won, sat on a shelf, and admired. আপনি have to work to keep her. Do sappy romantic things, carry her books, and open her doors. Never lose sight that every time a girl says yes to a date, it is the best thing that ever happened to you.
