Step 1. Understanding.
So আপনি just understood that আপনি don't like this thing anymore? Lets think about it. Do আপনি really want to stop? Won't আপনি feel bad after it. Actually it is just theorical part of stopping being a অনুরাগী but it is important. আপনি don't want to throw all your merchandise out and then cry and shout "I want it all back. I still প্রণয় it." Think twice before doing পরবর্তি steps.
Step 2. Big trashcan.
It is the most important and a quite symbolic step. আপনি take everything off. All the posters, all little অনুরাগী things আপনি have around you. Take everything away. It has symbolic meaning. Getting rid of obsession, of being a fan. Then throw everything out. EVERYTHING. Rip all the printouts, old posters. Get rid of all that. আপনি are starting a new life. Congratulate yourself.
Step 3. Things that are worth money.
Probably আপনি have something like CD's, DVD's, books, T-shirts, cups etc. Things that আপনি have paid a money for and they are still worth it. আপনি can throw them out of course but better idea is to just sell them. Maybe someone who is a অনুরাগী of a thing আপনি are stopping to be a অনুরাগী of will buy them. Things are used so আপনি won't probably sell them for the same price আপনি bought them but anyway... Maybe your cousin likes them? Give them to him. Also আপনি can donate things if আপনি want. Poor people will be happy about almost new T-shirts even with আপনি ex-idol pic on them.
Step 4. Digital cleaning.
Take your phone, tablet, computer and other devices and মোছা everything like সঙ্গীত files, pics. It also may have symbolic meaning and আপনি will get a lot of free মহাকাশ in your computers memory. Clean all আপনি social networks profiles. Maybe আপনি have ফেসবুক banner with your ex-idols pic. Change it! Unfollow it. Unsubscribe channels in youtube. মোছা thematic boards in pinterest. Stop being a অনুরাগী of সংগঠন in ফ্যানপপ and other fanclubs.
Step 5. Let the world know it.
Stopped being a অনুরাগী of Justin Bieber but some months later your godmother gives আপনি a cup with his pic on it for christmas, thinking that আপনি still like him? Don't let it happen. Tell everybody that আপনি are stopping being a fan. Write an arcticle in internet like I did. Tell it to your family and friends. Let them know.
Step 6. Start a new life.
Its the best part. আপনি can find a new thing to be a অনুরাগী of. আপনি can simply enjoy your freedom :) Remember, stopping being a অনুরাগী is good thing and আপনি don't have to be ashamed because it oppens আপনি to new opportunities, new things to like. Just be happy and proud of yourself about liking what আপনি like and disliking what আপনি dislike and if somebody says things like "How could আপনি stop being his fan?I hate আপনি for it. আপনি ruined our friendship." Remember that আপনি can do whatever আপনি want and its your life no matter what others say.
