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I'm not sure if I'm bisexual অথবা bi-curious and I can't ask anyone yet...help?

I'm 16 and I've had relationships with boys and all but when I masturbate I get turned on my girls. Does that mean im bisexual অথবা bi-curious?
And my friend turned bi and my other বন্ধু in our বৃত্ত treat her differently. My family jokes about one of me অথবা my siblings being gay and how thats wrong, so I have to act straight. I don't know when I should tell অথবা if it's worth telling because it could just be a phase. I'm scared and I don't know what to do. উত্তর অথবা উপদেশ anyone?
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probaly bi
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Cinders said:
First of all, I just want to get the language right. Your friend didn't turn bisexual, she came out bisexual. Sexuality isn't something that আপনি turn into, অথবা choose, it's something that's always existed in আপনি that আপনি might discover অথবা explore, but it's not a sudden change অথবা a choice.

Next, nobody, least of all people on the internet who don't know you, can tell আপনি what your sexual orientation is. I know that might be frustrating for you, but keep in mind that we aren't you, we aren't inside your head, and we don't know how আপনি are feeling অথবা what you're thinking.

I do want to reassure আপনি that it's OK to be bisexual, normal even. Sexual diversity is a natural thing, despite what some people say. It exists in জন্তু জানোয়ার and humans, and has for millions of years. আপনি aren't the first person to be confused দ্বারা this either. I would suggest going to speak to your school counselor, who is bound দ্বারা confidentiality laws to keep your trust if you're concerned about judgment from other people.

If you're not ready to come out bisexual either because you're not sure if আপনি are, অথবা you're not sure how people will react, then the short answer is don't. Wait until আপনি know yourself better and it feels right to tell others. Focus on your interests in boys if that helps আপনি feel better. If আপনি meet a girl that আপনি find attractive, and if she reciprocates, go for it, see how it feels. Don't hide from your feelings. But it's no one else's business either, if আপনি don't want it to be. Heterosexuals never have to "come out" straight. They don't carry a sign with them everywhere that says that they're straight. Coming out is supposed to empower you, help আপনি define an identity. If it doesn't, then আপনি don't have to do it until it does.

This probably isn't much help. I still urge আপনি to discuss with your school counselor, who is trained in these matters.
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wow this actually makes alot of sense. thanks. alot i mean it is my decision and im glad u were here 2help clear it up for me. :) thanks
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if u r on send me a messsage on my দেওয়াল ok bye
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deathxnote said:
Dont worry! Im 13 an i have a boyfriend but when i masterbate, i get really turned on দ্বারা lesbian porn. i didnt know if i was bi, but i learned that its normal in teen years. evenyually youll know what আপনি are but just relax an wait to find out what আপনি really are. :D
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