Just an প্রবন্ধ i read on the effects of alcohol and sex in general...any comments, experiences, ideas (either on alcohol অথবা sex) welcome.
Find out why too much alcohol can be a sexual turn-off for আপনি both.
Drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men's and women's sexual sensitivity.
"In both sexes, sexual response is reduced দ্বারা regular and prolonged drinking," she says.
"In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection - while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, অথবা have orgasms that are less intense."
Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. However, over time too much alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
Sexual side-effects
Drinking too much over an extended period of time can turn a temporary condition like 'Brewer's Droop' into full-blown impotence (1). Drinking can also cause damage if you're planning to have children. Women who drink over the government’s daily unit guidelines can take longer to become pregnant and can suffer from menstrual and fertility problems.
Recapture your spark
If you're serious about not letting alcohol get between আপনি and great sex, then it's best to try cutting down together. Start দ্বারা planning romantic nights that don't involve drinking alcohol at all, অথবা make sure that আপনি keep the amount on offer to within the daily unit guidelines.
Practical ways to cut back on booze
Rather than criticising your partner's drinking habits, acknowledge that it could be a good idea for both of আপনি to cut down.
Some enthusiastic praise can help steer your partner towards what makes আপনি both feel good. Compliments like "You look really slim now you've cut down on the pints," will help your partner feel positive about their choice.
Record your everyday drinking so at the end of the week আপনি can see what you've consumed. MyDrinkaware is perfect for this.
If you've got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a non-alcoholic choice instead.
Put away the money আপনি would have spent on alcohol. Then, at the end of the মাস use it for something আপনি can do together.
If আপনি are old enough - what have আপনি learned from your experiences of being under the influence and having sex
If your not old enough - what have আপনি learnt and how will আপনি prevent it in your life?
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Find out why too much alcohol can be a sexual turn-off for আপনি both.
Drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men's and women's sexual sensitivity.
"In both sexes, sexual response is reduced দ্বারা regular and prolonged drinking," she says.
"In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection - while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, অথবা have orgasms that are less intense."
Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. However, over time too much alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
Sexual side-effects
Drinking too much over an extended period of time can turn a temporary condition like 'Brewer's Droop' into full-blown impotence (1). Drinking can also cause damage if you're planning to have children. Women who drink over the government’s daily unit guidelines can take longer to become pregnant and can suffer from menstrual and fertility problems.
Recapture your spark
If you're serious about not letting alcohol get between আপনি and great sex, then it's best to try cutting down together. Start দ্বারা planning romantic nights that don't involve drinking alcohol at all, অথবা make sure that আপনি keep the amount on offer to within the daily unit guidelines.
Practical ways to cut back on booze
Rather than criticising your partner's drinking habits, acknowledge that it could be a good idea for both of আপনি to cut down.
Some enthusiastic praise can help steer your partner towards what makes আপনি both feel good. Compliments like "You look really slim now you've cut down on the pints," will help your partner feel positive about their choice.
Record your everyday drinking so at the end of the week আপনি can see what you've consumed. MyDrinkaware is perfect for this.
If you've got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a non-alcoholic choice instead.
Put away the money আপনি would have spent on alcohol. Then, at the end of the মাস use it for something আপনি can do together.
If আপনি are old enough - what have আপনি learned from your experiences of being under the influence and having sex
If your not old enough - what have আপনি learnt and how will আপনি prevent it in your life?
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yea so শিরোনাম says a lot of it. I'm 14, he's 15
and we've been dating for almost 9 months. we go to different high schools, so we pretty much only see each other nights and weekends. he is super impulsive, serisoly.
and he's been talking about sex for like a month, but recently, he's become আরো aggressive/pushy. like if we were kissing, he would get ontop of me (which is pretty normal) except he will like kind of hold me down and start doing stuff. if I tell him to stop he stops what he's doing but doesn't move, he justs tries to talk me into it. he also has started স্নেহ চুম্বন me up against the door. and he holds my shoulders/hips then to.
it's getting a little scary, I have bruises along my arms from him and on my hips. he just doesn't সরানো if I tell him. I've started avoiding being alone with him but I can't do that forever. what should I do? what do I say? I know this sounds niave but I really like him and I want to avoid breaking up with him if it's possible.
and we've been dating for almost 9 months. we go to different high schools, so we pretty much only see each other nights and weekends. he is super impulsive, serisoly.
and he's been talking about sex for like a month, but recently, he's become আরো aggressive/pushy. like if we were kissing, he would get ontop of me (which is pretty normal) except he will like kind of hold me down and start doing stuff. if I tell him to stop he stops what he's doing but doesn't move, he justs tries to talk me into it. he also has started স্নেহ চুম্বন me up against the door. and he holds my shoulders/hips then to.
it's getting a little scary, I have bruises along my arms from him and on my hips. he just doesn't সরানো if I tell him. I've started avoiding being alone with him but I can't do that forever. what should I do? what do I say? I know this sounds niave but I really like him and I want to avoid breaking up with him if it's possible.