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টেলিভিশন জুটি Be honest - do আপনি actually believe in "love at first sight"?

117 fans picked:
I believe in lust at first sight...
   38%
I don't know, I guess it depends on the situation.
   26%
No, it's pure BULLSHIT.
   21%
Yes. Yes i do.
   15%
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xoheartinohioxo picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
To be clear: I'm talking about in REAL LIFE do you believe that "love at first sight" is possible, or is it bullshit?
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xoheartinohioxo picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
Personally, there's no doubt in my mind that it's bullshit.

I feel like people who "lust at first sight" like to try and play it off as some epic, amazing connection, but really... it just doesn't work like that.

Don't get me wrong, I totally know that two people can hit it off and have a great connection right from the start, but love? Love just doesn't happen that quickly. Not the real, lasting kind at least.

From my experiences, this is what love is:

Love is crazy. It's complicated, it's messy, it fucks with your head and sends your heart all out of whack. Love can make you feel like screaming at the top of your lungs, jumping up and down like a maniac. Love can hurt you. It can make you want to cry sometimes, and sometimes, the best kind of love, it makes you feel like there is not one other person on this earth that can love you the way your romantic partner can.

So tell me, how can you feel all those things right away?
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xochuckandblair picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
I think love at first sight is completely stupid and never happens. If anyone claims they fell in love just by looking at someone, they're full of shit. You can't fall in love with someone without actually knowing them.
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spikes_girl picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
YUP. See above.
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mari_giovani picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
Totally agree with xoheartinohioxo! To me love is about completely accepting the other person for who they truly are, flaws and all. And i dont see how that could happen at 1st sight!
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kellyerin87 picked I don't know, I guess it depends on the situation.:
In tv... yes. Happens all the time.

In real life... not so much. Although you do hear people say from time to time that they "knew right away" that someone was "the one" for them. Whether or not that's believable is another story, but I have heard of real people claiming to have experienced love at first sight. So who freaking knows lol
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Kaelity picked I don't know, I guess it depends on the situation.:
Agree with kellyerin
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monLOVEbrucas picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
I think its infatuation
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backtoblack picked Yes. Yes i do.:
I may be lame and romantic,bu yeah I do.
It doesn't happen all the time,but I believe it exists.
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LaPiccolaFra picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
IMO it doesn't exist. It could be attraction or infatuation. But not love.
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katie15 picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
How can you love someone you don't know?
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bright_angel picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
I am not happy to say NO!
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Eirinaki_b_13 picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
You can like someone and feel lust about them but to truly love them you have to get to know them better!
I dont think you can say that you love/ are in love with someone without knowing them well enough!
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mswaldass picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
As in feeling attracted to someone. You can see the potential in falling for them, but you cannot feel it. Feeling love for someone you barley know, IS pure bullshit.

Even in the fictional world. I just roll my eyes at the "love at first sight" stories.
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carambolas picked Yes. Yes i do.:
I think it´s very unusual but it does happen
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leytonfaan_18 picked Yes. Yes i do.:
^ Agreed I think it's rare but it does happen. Happened to me before, and no it wasn't lust or feeling attracted to him. I just saw him and I completly fell in love with him xD
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gracery picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
I believe that you can be attracted to someone with one look... obviously. But you can't fall in love until you know someone. I'm sorry, but you just can't.
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_Chryso_ picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
of course you can see someone and really really like them with one look.. you think that he/she is beautiful etc.. but definitely you CAN'T love someone without knowing them at all.. =) but I like love at first time sometimes in tv shows =)
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Dean-girlx picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
Agree with you Holly! <3

I think you can be attracted to someone, and definitely want to spend time getting to know them but love?! = hell no.
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Irreversible picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
You can feel some kind of connection or something but love at first sight it's true bullshit .
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AdeTiffSan picked Yes. Yes i do.:
Since i had one last year :)
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alwaysforever picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
I totally believe in Lust at first sight. Like if you have a crazy attraction to someone when you first see them but that doesn't mean you love them. "You love someone for the little things that are true to them and only them" - Win a Date with Tad Hamiliton =D
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leytonfaan_18 picked Yes. Yes i do.:
I think that people can't understand it if they've never exprienced it AdeTiffSan :)
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livexthexlife92 picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
how do you love someone you dont even know? its ridiculous. i believe in infatuation at first sight, but deffo not LOVE. id waaay rather the idea of FALLING IN LOVE, than "love at first sight" (gag)
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bruliangurl picked I believe in lust at first sight...:
It works in the tv shows but in real life...i don`t know.
I`ve dated lots of guys but I`ve never been in love but I guess that`s because at my age guys aren`t thinking about love or long-term they have other things on their mind (:
I don`t think it`s BS but I don`t think that it`s possible, maybe in some cases though...
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brittlegirl94 picked I don't know, I guess it depends on the situation.:
It really really depends, even in real life it depends.

Not that I believe in it in RL, but you never know.
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reffie_shipper picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
No, sorry.

I don't understand how you can love someone without knowing them .. I'm with Barney & Robin on this one, total BS.
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tonyziva1234 picked No, it's pure BULLSHIT.:
Never have and never will believe in it. You can't love someone without knowing them. End of, imo.
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