Should I block him?

He's this really creepy guy I met at camp, who wouldn't leave me alone, kinda stalked me around the camp to the point where it was like, "Um... personal space? Can I please actually walk somewhere অথবা talk to someone without আপনি standing over my shoulder? Can আপনি not plant yourself in front of me so আপনি can just stare at me?" It was REALLY creepy. But I felt kinda bad for him, so when he friend requested me on Facebook, I accepted.

But I'm thinking that wasn't so smart of me now.

First, I know for a fact that he likes me, অথবা at least as much as a person can know that somebody else likes them. (He told me he likes me, and I rejected him. He's too creepy.) So he knows that I'm Jewish, though he never revealed his religion to me. Today, I was talking to him, and the conversation went like this (this is copy-and-pasted from the ফেসবুক Chat):

Him: I just got back from a class at my temple for confirmation (Note: he ব্যক্ত this without me asking. I just ব্যক্ত hi and he kinda randomly wrote this)

Me: um, they dont hav confirmation in judaism... and temples are jewish...

(A significant period of no response...)

Him: Its a different kind of confirmation

Me: oh? wat is it?

(Another significant period of no response...)

Him: I dont know. All we do is discuss jew things

At this point I ব্যক্ত "brb" with no intent of returning to talk to him. I was kind of insulted দ্বারা this, and I really pissed off about it (and I still am). I'm considering blocking him. Do আপনি think I should just forget about it? অথবা do আপনি think I'm right and I should block him? (Just making sure I'm not overreacting...)
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dreamfields said:
I am behind the times and have not gotten into ফেসবুক yet. I do believe in being নিরাপদ and comfortable. I would unfriend him, block him অথবা whatever it takes.
I agree with আপনি that this guy sounds creepy. I would not do anything to encourage him. Put it another way anything he might take as a sign আপনি interested.
Now I am Christian, not Jewish. His মতামত about "jew things" says alot. He's either a biggot অথবা an idiot. I see all types of red flags.
I would err on the side of caution and try to stop
any অথবা all contact. If he persists, আপনি may want to get outside help. I don't know how old আপনি are,
so আপনি could talk to a school counselor অথবা get উপদেশ from a police officer.
Forgive me if I sound a bit overboard, but I am protective at heart. I don't think we really know where this guy's head is at অথবা what he might do.
Just want আপনি to be নিরাপদ and at peace. God bless.
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I was thinking about what I wrote and thought I might of come accross to strong. This boy has a problem and needs help. I hope he gets help. I just wanted আপনি to know that I don't think আপনি are the person who can give it to him. I've seen this type of situation before and an innocent person becomes a victim. Take care.
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I agree with your answer.
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juniper427 said:
I'm kind of mean about ফেসবুক but if আপনি don't consider him a friend just unfriend him. I only accept friend request if they are the kind of people I would stop and talk to in the halls. that may seem overly selective to some people but I want to feel conferrable posting thing I care about.
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Sugar-N-Spice said:
You're not overreacting. This is creepy. And that confirmation thing was an obvious lie. I'd remove and block him.
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jeftelover said:
tell the guy to shut the fuck up and
block him!trust me girl,you will feel better
after আপনি do that.:)
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
Honestly, he doesn't sound right in the head, and if he makes আপনি uncomfortable, আপনি shouldn't put his needs first. He doesn't sound like a good guy, so before anything goes too far, অথবা he does something worse, আপনি need to block him for your safety.
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