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posted by Shakailicious
নমস্কার everyone! I have recently joined this site because I read an প্রবন্ধ on a similar topic. This girl wrote about her inner fears that she might be bisexual, she ব্যক্ত that she absolutely isn't against the gay community she is just unsure of what her sexuality might bring her (like me).
I have a somewhat similar situation concerning my sexual orientation, I 'think' that I am bisexual. As a kid I never had huge crushes on neither boys nor girls. True, the first guy that I liked was in kindergarten, after him I had only 2 'relevant' boy crushes (crushes that lasted somewhat long). However in the...
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Travelling to different countries in Asia this বছর with my girlfriend and I’m considering if I should just book with a travel agency rather than making arrangements on my own. We’re both thinking about going to Singapore, Vietnam, Malaysia, Thailand, and Cambodia. I’ve seen Multiple city singles tours packages which are rather affordable. It already includes flight tickets, a 4-star accommodation for the whole trip, city tour in each country, and all-day meals. Should I just get this kind of package?
I’m honestly getting sick and tired of listening to my best friend who is constantly bragging about how a foreign surfer dude was hitting on her at the beach. During her visit to Australia, she was at that famous সৈকত and apparently this “tall and muscular hunk” approached her and asked if she was single. They exchanged numbers but a few days after that, she flew back here. Since her arrival, she never heard from him again. I wish I could তীক্ষ্নভাবে her in the face with the truth that there was never going to be anything between them ‘cause one, they’re in a long distance situation and two, she doesn’t even know his name!
Sorry for the rant, I just really needed to get this off my chest. But if আপনি guys have any suggestions and উপদেশ for me regarding this, that would be awesome. Thanks a bunch.
My good friend was convinced to যোগদান this weird event thing called an a romance tour (i think it’s called?). He’s too shy to go alone so he’s asking me to accompany him. He ব্যক্ত that he’ll take care of my expenses since he’s kind of excited about attending one. But in my opinion, this doesn't really seem like something I would consider spending money on. There are a couple of things that make me want to go, since it’s travelling to an international country, and hey, I might actually meet someone there. Is it a big waste of time and money অথবা should i just go for the hell of it? I got nothing better to do anyway.
posted by ztara
 He had just snorted a line of Horlicks, (he was an idiot)
He had just snorted a line of Horlicks, (he was an idiot)
On the 21st of June 2007, my best friend killed himself. He shot himself in the head after suffering from depression for what he ব্যক্ত was 'as long as i can remember'. I'd known the guy from when i was three and i miss him like the devil. He was called Joe Spencer Garrard. But for the last few years he dropped the spencer bit, (his bastard dads name). I grew up with the guy and was with him on the last day. Hence i feel almightly responcible, and i know people have told me there is nothing i could have done but i do. As we grew up together we used to play out in the woods alot, Joe was an out...
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I started realizing that I had feelings for people, I have had boyfriends and they make me smile and feel happy and not alone. But every time I have a boyfriend I never feel right, I think that they are kind funny smart and many আরো but I never actually like liked them, I always ব্যক্ত that I did. I never knew why. Until I met this one guy, he was perfect I thought I really liked him, he was everything and we started talking a lot, we dated and then one দিন we broke up. I felt torn. But I still went on. I like watching things like Victoria's Secret shows and the live shows from them, and I always...
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posted by africachick

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really প্রণয় him! All my বন্ধু tell me 2 সরানো on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
posted by key_ra
a rose,
to a person,
is that meaning something?

a gift,
to a person,
is that hiding anything?

a smile,
to a person,
it is আরো that just a friend?

a laugh,
to a person,
is that teasing them?

a book,
to a person,
is that called insulting?

everything must have the negative thought দ্বারা people surround me.
they ask me, "is that just a friend?"
and i will say, "yes, why not?"
they again will ask, "are আপনি like him?"
and i will answer, "people always thinking in negative way. how if i give that to my best friend, is that still meaning something? is that still hiding anything? is that still আরো than a best friend? is that still teasing? is that still insulting?"
and then, i will continue........."no, it is just a friend."

*my life full with untrusted friendship. i don't think they will assume me as their best friend, but if anyone seeking for a trustful friend, i'm here to help you.*
Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.

In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get মতামত like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?

What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad অথবা harmful.

Also, we are aware of the...
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posted by Sephisis17
নমস্কার everyone! Recently, A soap box was added to this spot. My black life দ্বারা user IsabellaAzuria, told us what she fells inside. Whoever, I think our problems can ne solved easly if we have help. So to help IsabellaAzuria AKA Vanessa, I'm going to dedicate this poem that I wrote about 2 months ago, to her. To প্রদর্শনী her that life has collors and it is not black.

Life is a gift
A rare one    
I got to live every second
Since the time আপনি are born

আপনি got to live it not to waste it
This is the only one আপনি have
There’s no re-born অথবা re-incarnation
If আপনি don’t know how to behave

Life is short
So live it good
Whatever is your mood

Don’t be shy have some fun
So your life will shine
As brighter as the sun

Sephisis17 AKA Vitor Martins
Dedicated to Vanessa
Many people feel that প্রণয় hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell আপনি the truth...love won't do that. প্রণয় is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your দিন is আপনি still find a reason to smile because আপনি feel like আপনি have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah আপনি may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell আপনি something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is আপনি can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument অথবা what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give উপদেশ to those people who হারিয়ে গেছে someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if আপনি truly loved them আপনি would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. আপনি will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give আপনি peace at mind. Dream Big. প্রণয় Forever. Live like today is your last day
posted by hipstabelike
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He ব্যক্ত to one of his বন্ধু if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I ব্যক্ত I will make আপনি 99 আরো problems. After that he still hasn't প্রদত্ত up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
Stranger: Tell me what's troubling you
You: Life -.-
Stranger: What about it?
You: Drama D:
Stranger: like what
Stranger: I got nothing better to do, fill me in
You: Well, see, I have a friend, that I really like...
Stranger: And?
You: He doesn't feel the same...):
Stranger: Such is life
Stranger: Plenty of মাছ in the sea, que sera sera
Stranger: What will be will be
Stranger: You'll be okay
You: (:
Stranger: Uh..okay
Stranger: Was that it?
You: Well, he acts like we're going out, its strange.
Stranger: What do আপনি mean?
You: I always hang out with him at school, and once school finishes, he'd চুম্বন me goodbye...
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With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have ব্যক্ত to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.

That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This তালিকা of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give আপনি an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if আপনি ever feel yourself stung দ্বারা the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," আপনি can read this প্রবন্ধ and know...
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Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some চলচ্ছবি I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.

He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy দিন after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my টেবিল group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
posted by PuNkRoCk123
It’s tough when you’ve made a fallacious decision. All sorts of terrible; life-changing things happen! Your feelings about life changed. আপনি find it difficult to mend the situation, and অথবা know আপনি can’t adjust it. আপনি beg and plead to redo everything, but that’s life, it happened for a reason.
My father’s been drinking as long as I can remember. He’d drink about seven bottles of বিয়ার everyday when he got back from work. I’ve told him once in awhile about how concerned I am about his drinking, especially how dangerous it is when consumed too much, and his response was always the...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call আপনি and it's not about who you've dated, are dating অথবা haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport আপনি play, অথবা which guy অথবা girl likes you. It's not about your shoes অথবা your hair অথবা the colour of your skin অথবা where আপনি live অথবা go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, অথবা colleges that accept আপনি অথবা not Life isn't about if আপনি have lots of friends, অথবা if আপনি are alone, and it's not about how accepted অথবা unaccepted আপনি are. Life just isn't about that.

But life is about who আপনি প্রণয় and...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
"I've found that a substantial fraction of many people's days is spent worrying about what others think of them. If nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, we'd all be 33 percent আরো effective in our lives and on our jobs.

How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.

I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good অথবা bad, I'll let আপনি know what's in my head."

That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke...
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posted by Cutebutcrazy--
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let আপনি know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it আপনি just need উপদেশ অথবা want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but আপনি can't let that get আপনি down. So before yo udo something studip অথবা something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If আপনি want to talk send me a message I'll help আপনি out.
I'm a 16 বছর old female (about to graduate her sophomore বছর of high school) & everything used to be okay. I was a 4.0 student (up until now), I had a few বন্ধু to hang out with on weekends, I studied hard, I got along with people... But now I just feel terrible. My grade point average has dropped to a 3.7 (which is still good but... it's not good enough) & my mom never ever helps me at all: she always makes things worse with all her yelling and screaming at me to "get skinnier" and "go on lots of diets" and "lose weight lose weight!" and "go to gym আপনি need to lose weight" but...
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