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Does it bother আপনি to get approached অথবা hit on দ্বারা the SAME sex?





Well my friend and I were walking to the store and this chick comes up to me and says 'Hi', I ব্যক্ত Hi back not thinking too much about it.
I thought she was one of those people on the রাস্তা who try to sell আপনি on to something...I was wrong.
She started telling me I look nice and blah blah and I just ব্যক্ত I wasn't into girls.
My বন্ধু was like, after the lady left, "OMG, if that was me she was talking to, I would have freaked out."
I was like "Why?"
She goes "Because she was a girl...that's so not cool."
Me: O_0

I didn't see what the big deal was.
She just expressed her interest in me. Although I denied her, its nothing to get all 'weirded out' about.

Are আপনি like my friend and get freaked when someone the same sex as আপনি are, approaches you?
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
It's only happened twice. It was a bit awkward and I didn't enjoy it, but I wouldn't overreact.
I'd just treat her like a guy I'm not interested in.
The first one was easy to get rid of.
The সেকেন্ড one accused me of being homophobic and saying I'd be all over her if she was a guy.
Not true because she was very annoying, but oh well.
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lmao @ "She was very annoying." But yea some of them don't back down for nothing.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
Uh, no...
I just tell the person that I'm not intersted.
Don't respond 'eww' to this question. I think that it could be considered anti-gay.
Plus, just saying hi isn't hitting on someone.
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Who ব্যক্ত that? 0
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The girl who 'flirted' with you. Complementing isn't flirting, either.
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r-pattz said:
Considering the fact that I'm a lesbian, no. :)
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I think it's great that unlike most lesbians/gays আপনি don't feel ashamed to say it.
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xXSweeneyXx said:
I'm asexual and feel uncomfortable being hit on from either gender. Of course I wouldn't discriminate against someone from the same sex though.
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I would like to remind some of the people who have মতামত প্রদত্ত here that not every gay person is attracted to আপনি because you're straight. I'm pretty sure it doesn't work that way.
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Yeah, I'm totally in the same নৌকা as you. Except that I never actually know if I'm being hit on, and if I do, it's completely awkward to me.
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lauren777222 said:
I don't mind someone of the same gender approching me but when they hit on me.......I draw the line
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LuvelyKysses said:
I don't mind the approaching but I politely would draw the line when it comes to the hitting on.
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XxEmolovexX said:
no, maybe they want to be friends, but if they hit on me i draw the line there
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demon_wolf said:
Nope. Doesn't weird me out. I'm not into girls. If they were to hit on me I would just tell them I'm not into girls.
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samuraibond005 said:
The problem isn't that they are someone of the same sex, but then again I am bi, but rather the fact that I already have a perfect girlfriend.
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Drisina said:
No as long as she understand what 'no' means and she isn't rude.
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2dolphn97 said:
ok i would b a lil wierded out but i wouldnt freak out... idc if they just aproch me but if they hit on me 0_o i would just probably say im not interested
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Shepard14 said:
I don't get freaked out but I make it definitively clear I am not alternative lifestyle and will ONLY have an interest in the opposite sex...
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New_Moon_Master said:
Same sex অথবা opposite sex, it doesn't matter.
If they're being creepy অথবা making me uncomfortable than it's the same.
I actually dislike it a lot আরো when guys hit on me, lol. It's probably just the WAY they do it. If they're nice, than it's fine.
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AaronHaley4ever said:
I always turn them down but I don't freak out about it অথবা anything. I mean, আপনি are who আপনি are.
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RapQueen111 said:
Well i had something like that today..It was an friend of mine and we was doing this stupid গাধা math test so he passed me a note saying "Would u go out with me? Yes অথবা no?" and i wrote a LONGGGG reply saying he's my friend .. i dont তারিখ বন্ধু and he kinda gets the fuck on my nerves but thats ok lol..But im just not in to him like that..

Butttt my same sex NEVER hit on me before.. O_O.I H.O.P.E. it never happens...
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Manana2 said:
if that happened to your friend, she should be flattered because a person প্রদর্শনী interest in her!
not freak out. your friend is a homophobic unlike you. :)
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Indeed. I find it hard to be that way. ^.^
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
It hasn't happened to me, but I don't think it would bother me. I can say that, but I suppose আপনি don't really know until it actually happens on how you're gonna feel.

But it doesn't seem anything to be creeped out about, we're all people! And how are they ever meant to find someone if they haven't got the guts to find out if the person they're interested in is gay too?

I know a lot of gay people though, and I don't think anything of it, though I can see why your বন্ধু might feel creeped out, I just don't think I would.
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PaisleyPark said:
Not really.

It's a little uncomfortable, but in general, I am flattered.
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Lolly4me2 said:
Not quite, I guess. I myself am attracted to other girls in the slightest, so I consider myself bisexual. :/ Though I prefer men, my বন্ধু seem to hit on me now and again. And that doesn't bother me, but if it was someone off the রাস্তা that approached me like you, I would feel my safety to be আরো threatened than my feelings toward that person.
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CourtneyFan17 said:
I have a few বন্ধু who are lesbian so no it doesn't creep me out দ্বারা yes I say I'm not interested and introduce them to my বন্ধু :)
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হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ Nice ;)
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justliveitlive said:
It's never happened to me before.

Thing is, I never actually know if I'm being hit on অথবা not. I'm just socially awkward like that.
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agreed! me too :-/
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we can be awkward together, haha.
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Applebottoms94 said:
yes because nowing that there a girl just makes me mad im ghetto so i will get very very very mad sorry if im being weird
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EatTHIS said:
হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ I'm lesbian.

I don't particularly like getting hit on দ্বারা the opposite sex, but I can't blame them. ;)
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Katastrophe said:
Not at all.
I'm lesbian. :P
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*high fucking five* ;)
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High fucking fives ftw :D
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BeastBoyCahill said:
That would be... pretty creepy... Yeah, it would probably really creep me out but I'd try not to overreact. Because basically, I'm okay with gays, I mean, I don't think they should be persecuted. But it would still be creepy if I was approached দ্বারা one. আপনি get it, right?
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adultswimperson said:
*Facepalm*
This প্রশ্ন was asked a বছর ago.
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blazeandarose said:
Never happened to me, But i wouldn't really mind it too much really.
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