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EmzLovesCheryl said:
It takes time to become a 'best' friend to somebody. A best friend is somebody is always there, watching your back. Somebody who knows আপনি inside out but loves আপনি anyway. Somebody that আপনি can trust with all your secrets. Somebody that আপনি can sit with in silence without it feeling awkward. Somebody আপনি can discuss anything with. Somebody who আপনি would do anything for, and they'd do the same for you. Somebody that আপনি don't feel self-conscious around. Somebody that wouldn't just stand and watch আপনি fool about, but যোগদান in with you. Somebody that আপনি can call up casually at any time and ask if they're free to hang out. Somebody that আপনি can easily say 'I প্রণয় you' to, to their face. Somebody that spontaneously hugs আপনি in public without giving it a সেকেন্ড count. Somebody who would stay up all night texting আপনি because আপনি needed their support at the time.
It annoys me when some people claim 'you've my best friend' after knowing eachother one day. Just because আপনি automatically get on well with someone doesn't mean they're a best friend. As I said, a best friend should be somebody that is all the above. That's how I feel anyway. It's not a fact, no, it's an opinion. But I feel that 'best friend' is a strong meaning. It's not just anyone.
আপনি have to get to know them, আপনি have to have a special bond. আপনি have to spend time together and accept eachother despite the differences আপনি will find out. It takes time to form a best friend, but if আপনি find that this person means so much to you, and আপনি get to know eachother, you'll find that the level of your friendship will increase. Through my eyes, when আপনি can put a tick পরবর্তি to all that I stated above, then it's নিরাপদ to say they're your best friend.
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