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Cutting?

i'm a cutter. it's almost an addiction. what do i do?
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It IS a form of addiction. I suggest আপনি ask someone আপনি really trust for help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength to realize something has escalated into a big problem that আপনি can't solve on your own.
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RobinFan360 said:
Depends on the reason.
I don't know how it feels since I don't cut, but maybe আপনি can try and handle it like sucking your thumb? Put something over your wrists(or wherever আপনি cut) that আপনি can't open. Maybe like a bunch of duct tape? অথবা something that needs a code to unlock which only a family member would know?

And then maybe আপনি could try cutting something else if the reason আপনি cut is to vent your frustration.

Again I don't really know much :/
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Why would she lock something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted বছরখানেক আগে
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^ so she can't cut it
XxKeithHarkinxX posted বছরখানেক আগে
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What does she means দ্বারা locking something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I don't know. Something like a big bracelet that can have a little lock
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seeuvocaloid3 said:
message me so we can talk about it because this type of stuff is serious
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okay
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
STOP!
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......it's hard
Castalinia posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I know, i know noting about this, but it does আপনি no good it just hurts আপনি more, wear rubber wrist bands so আপনি can't.
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loYol said:
Well for one, try stopping. If আপনি can't stop, remove all sharp objects away from yourself. When আপনি feel the need to cut, try to distract yourself. Maybe find some new hobbies.

Secondly, get help.
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Panda-Hero said:
Stop. Wear a জ্যাকেট ALL দিন (I know it's hot but I wear jackets every দিন Bl) so আপনি don't see your arms, and stay around your family so আপনি won't have time অথবা privacy to cut yourself.
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adultswimperson said:
Mental Hospital.

True story.
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Nopenopenope
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO
Castalinia posted বছরখানেক আগে
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@Castalinia, If your parents don't want আপনি to die then আপনি should stop starting now, otherwise they WILL send আপনি to one because they think your trying to commit suicide.
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buffyl0v3r44 said:
I think আপনি should try to talk to someone close to আপনি about it, most people would recommend a psychiatrist, but truthfully I don't think they work, but নমস্কার whatever works for you. Cutting yourself doesn't solve any problems so just stop. আপনি obviously have issues if your trying to hurt yourself, so I think আপনি just to relax and take things easy for a while. I checked পরিলেখ out and আপনি seem quite depressed, emo, ect. so I think আপনি should take that off your পরিলেখ and make it happier, I think that its just reminding আপনি of the pain your going through, so I think if আপনি start telling yourself positive things and being আরো positive then it will take আপনি of the dark and bring আপনি আরো into the light. I hoped this helped, sorry I'm not the best at giving advice, but if your not comfortable talking to family অথবা বন্ধু then আপনি are আরো than welcome to message me anytime!
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JamesMalsow said:
ummm go some where were their is no knifes অথবা any thing sharp!!!
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 ummm go some where were their is no knifes অথবা any thing sharp!!!
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i use pencil sharpener blades
Castalinia posted বছরখানেক আগে
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oh but still
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TheDirector said:
If আপনি can, আপনি should see a psychologist. And I'm not saying that because there's something wrong with you.

People tend to cut themselves when they've gone through something traumatizing অথবা a terrible tragedy.

Psychologists are here to help people like you. They talk through your problems with আপনি and try their very best to help আপনি stop whatever problem অথবা "addiction" that আপনি are going through.

If আপনি cannot see a psychologist, then try talking to a friend that আপনি know আপনি can rely on.

If আপনি don't have a friend আপনি can rely on, then I'm always available to talk to. I've dealt with cases such as yours, and I'm nonjudgmental in every aspect, but it's all up to you.

Best of luck, sweetie!


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Thanks. The only friend i have lives in Dallas (an ঘন্টা away from me) and is moving in July because her father is in the war.
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Ale1152 said:
Like I fucking ব্যক্ত on the উপদেশ spot, আপনি fucking stop. No matter what. It's fucking stupid to do something like that.
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Agreed...
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canddfan29 said:
don't cut yourself! why do আপনি do that?!
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noahnstar1616 said:
Wow. I know you're depressed, but wow...
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x-menobsessed26 said:
Just like I পোষ্ট হয়েছে in the প্রশ্ন আপনি asked in the উপদেশ section, talk to me if আপনি need to. Sometimes it helps আরো when আপনি know someone is listening. I know my friend ComicLover13 also does things like this. Everything আপনি say stays between আপনি and me. We've done this many times for many different people.
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Thanks. i will
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RainbowOtakuX3 said:
আপনি should try to find a healthier way to express your negative feelings.
Like, crying, talking to someone, convey your feelings onto paper.. Like a journal অথবা diary.. Something other than hurting yourself.
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But it helps...a little
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^ Even so, it's not healthy. Just.. try to relieve yourself of the habbit of cutting, and try something else that could be equally as effective.
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Me_Iz_Here said:
Try to stop. Easier ব্যক্ত than done, I know. But just try. If it's too hard, talk to someone. It can just be a friend, family member, anyone আপনি can trust. Even if you're uncomfortable with it, আপনি have to tell someone. Also, try to avoid any triggers. Sorry, I'd প্রণয় to help আরো but I'm not a very helpful person. :/
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It's okay. আপনি did help.
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Dogtier said:
Well... I recommend talking to someone আপনি trust. People আপনি know won't exploit you, অথবা blackmail আপনি are anything like that.
Talk to them about it, vent to them. That helps quite a bit, and puts less stress on you, and hopefully controls the urge to cut.

I know, quitting is hard, but it's not worth it in the end. Hurting yourself, harming yourself, killing yourself does absolutely nothing.
There are many things to look অগ্রবর্তী to, many positive things and good people, and ending all those chances at happiness and all that is NOT worth it.
I'm sure your বন্ধু and family care about আপনি and would be very upset if that happened.
I'm saying this because I know cutting can turn into something more. And that's never good.

I'm am bad at giving advice. This is a subject I take seriously... so I tried to help to the best of my ability.
Sorry if my উপদেশ sucks.
Just remember there are people out there that really care.
If worse comes to worse, talk to me. I'm willing to hear আপনি out, always.
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Thanks......:'(
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Mecksey said:
Castalinia, I used to do the same thing. My wrist is covered with scars. And I used to make eraser marks on my lower stomach. Also on my left leg. It seemed impossible for me to stop. I was addicted, too. To be honest, my parents didn't seem to help me. So I talked to my aunt. And then I talked with my counselor. She helped me realize why I did cut. I cut because I felt I was ugly, that people hated me and were out to get me dead. That's how I felt. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful because I'm me. There's no other me. And she made me realize that I don't need people to like me to get through life. I don't need a lot of বন্ধু to be happy. My life's for me, not anyone else. I've also realized that I can also have someone to help me be happy. For me, that's Ralph Macchio. Just watching his movies, অথবা looking at him, অথবা hearing his voice makes me happy. He's another reason that helped me stop.

I'm sorry this probably didn't help.
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springely said:
An hero.
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KJBiggestFan said:
Stop telling the internet and get HELP.
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ripper124 said:
Idk... when your a grown up আপনি can get a job the cut this. That sounds fun. ^-^
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ilovemichael17 said:
find something to distract you. i have a friend who used to do it but she found something to keep her mind off of it and she stopped almost automatically
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BeastBoyCahill said:
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Please...
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i know. i'm sorry, Beasty.
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