Serious problem. Please answer!

Are আপনি really concerned about whether your mom and grandma will continue to accept and প্রণয় আপনি if আপনি are indeed bi? I'm asking this because that's kind of the sense I'm getting from your explanation.

Your family may initially be in denial, especially as you've mentioned that you've had many crushes on boys. Their reaction could be the dreaded "this is just a phase," অথবা as আপনি wrote, a side-effect of whatever your medical condition is.

Are they generally supportive of এলজিবিটি গোষ্ঠী people? If they are, that's definitely a plus for you. There's no one sure-fire way to broach this topic, but আপনি could bring up that আপনি know that your attraction to both boys and girls is genuine, that আপনি feel the same rush for an attractive (to you) girl as আপনি do for a boy. Do আপনি feel comfortable introducing your girlfriend? If আপনি think that would be too big of a step right now, then hold off. Take things in stages.

If your family is not supportive, because of religious beliefs, অথবা general discomfort, then, no-brainer, it will be আরো difficult. Are আপনি able to have discussions about sensitive topics with your family? Do they take your point of view seriously, অথবা do they dismiss your opinion because of your age? If আপনি are able to talk with them, this won't be one big discussion, but a series of them in which আপনি can respectfully get their point of view and also express yours.

In the best possible case, your family will accept আপনি as আপনি are. There is no formula to convince them, but keep talking, and good luck.

O.O......WELL, I DONT ACTUALLY SUPPORT GAY PEOPLE BUT.........WELLLL...JUST WHO CARES IF THEY NEED TO KNOW. SO আপনি WERE KISSED দ্বারা A GIRL IN THE CHEEK AND U LIKED IT.......WELL JUST LET THEM THING আপনি ARE NORMAL, BESIDES, U NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON A GIRL ANYWAY, AND PEOPLE THIS DAYS ENOUGH IS BEING DONE TO SUPPORT GAY PEOPLE :O. SO JUST GO TO THEM AND SAY: "MOM, I THINK AM BI. DONT TAKE IT TO HARSH OKAY? I JUST NEEDED TO TELL U THIS SO IN THE FUTURE U DONT GO MAD" AND IF SHE DONT BELIVE, TEN WHO CARESIS THER PROBLEM. AND TRUST ME, আপনি ARE LUCKY AM NOT THE ANTI-GAY CHRISTIAN :O

I'm sorry in advance if I'm not helpful.

But,maybe আপনি can প্রদর্শনী them your girlfriend? Tell them that আপনি truly প্রণয় her from the bottom of your heart,it might work.

Wellll.....


My gf is bi.

Perhaps আপনি could introduce them to your gf? and sit down with your Gf, your mom and grandma, and explain your feeelings?

প্রদর্শনী them a 1 picture each of a male couple and female couple, then explain how আপনি feel about both.

I AM IN THE SAME FUCKING SITUATION AFTER I TOLD ME MOM I'M BI SHE DIDN;T BELIEVE ME AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO CONVINCE HER I AM GBDSFKJDJNNHKLG;'FJK

Look at it this way
Your parents:
care for আপনি till around 18
Say they প্রণয় you
চুম্বন আপনি good night
They try to teach আপনি wrong and right
Make আপনি strive for your best
They punish you
They discourage unfavorable (to them) behavior

Your potential love:
Cares for আপনি from when আপনি meet till death (18-60+)
Say the প্রণয় you
চুম্বন আপনি with tongue goodnight
Teach আপনি to be naughty at প্রথমপাতা and nice in public
Do your best and get a reward
Only punishment is make up sex
Encourage all behavior and lets আপনি do things they don't like anyways
Did I mention sex?

Which seems better to আপনি দ্বারা comparison?

This video might help আপনি with you're cause :p
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Good Luck .

If আপনি think you're bisexual, then আপনি probably are. It's a shame, but there are parents that find it hard to accept that their children are something else than heterosexual. It doesn't have to mean that they're against homosexuality অথবা bisexuality, but it may just need a while to make them get used to it.

What I'd do is to let it rest for a while.

EDIT: Ah, I read through a couple of answers, and I noticed your family is Christian. It's true that Christianinty isn't really anti-homosexual, but it is ব্যক্ত in the bible that peolpe should procreate, and that's impossible with people who are homosexual. Sadly, people tend to see bisexuality as homosexuality. It's probably difficult for your mother to accept that you're bi. Try to give it some time.