ok um sometimes people use আপনি as a shoulder to lean on until they make আরো বন্ধু so আপনি have to be careful about who আপনি choose.if they talk to আপনি all the time and start talking less than maybe they want আপনি as a back up friend:( (not good)
আপনি know if someones your friend when they ask আপনি haow আপনি are doing and they really want to know when আপনি can talk to them about anything and they will listen and not judge you. They are your true বন্ধু when they will do anything to make sure আপনি are okay. they are the ones that are always there for আপনি not just during your high times but those times when আপনি get knocked to your knees and their there to help আপনি right back up again thats how আপনি can tell if someone is truly your friend
Honestly I don't believe in true friends. আপনি can't always trust them অথবা they won't always be there when আপনি need them. I am not saying there are no বন্ধু because i have really good friends. But let me give u an example when ur friend has a boyfriend they will leave to be with them and they forget about u. অথবা they will also be jealous of what u have and thet is not a good friend. There are alot of small little things that ur বন্ধু will make that doesn't make them a true friend. I can think of alot but i am too lazy to write all of them. Also there always getting mad and leaving u. There are good বন্ধু but no true বন্ধু that will always be there for u.
আপনি know someone is truely your friend when আপনি screw up over and over again and they continue to forgive you. আপনি know someones your friend when they stick up for you, take a মুষ্ট্যাঘাত for আপনি then when আপনি try to appologize for it and they say there's nothing to appologize for. When no matter what আপনি do to them they are always ready to help you, when আপনি slam the door in their face and they stay outside till আপনি open the door again. আপনি know they're your friend when they comfort আপনি through what seems like the worst time of your life, they're the one person who knows when your hurting অথবা when somethings wrong with just one quick look অথবা even just text. আপনি know আপনি have a real friend when after all the wrong and tears আপনি may have braught to their eyes, they still will forgive and প্রণয় you.
A friend never steals your boyfriend/girlfriend. They always listen to what ever crap আপনি say (pretend to at least) They are always there for you. Offer to go beat anyone who hurts you. আপনি want to see them and they look অগ্রবর্তী to seeing you. আপনি have a connection, আপনি just get on very well with them. They give আপনি উপদেশ and hugs. They pay for আপনি to get into the cinema (me xD) They let আপনি borrow your clothes. আপনি feel protective of them and vice versa. আপনি প্রণয় them!!!! (friendly way)
Someone's friend let's see 1.They say hello 2.They are kind 3.They stand up for u 4.They care for u 5.They don't hurt u 6.They make up for bad things 7.They're ur friend
