Do আপনি believe people are born gay অথবা do they choose it?

আপনি people are wrong, they are born gay, they don't choose it. Homosexuality has nothing to do with reproducing. আপনি are either gay অথবা আপনি aren't, it's not a choice, just like being straight isn't a choice. It's not like straightening your hair অথবা buying a pair of jeans, those are choices but choosing to be gay? আপনি can't, not every person who is gay chooses to be gay, it's just really something they are born with. But don't realize it until they realize that they are gay.

I don't believe that anyone is born with a sexuality, I think it develops. আপনি know that 95% of the brain develops from birth to the age of 5, right? Sexuality, in my opinion, is developed. If আপনি are straight, it developed. If আপনি are gay, it developed.

Just my opinion on things, please no hate.

'Raised straight' as was I. As was just about everyone else in the world, and yet, homosexual people still exist, still come out, still discover what they like every day. Behaviorism is rampant in the USA(I don't know if that's where আপনি are), so the majority of people think that hetero/homosexualities are 'molded' into the children of this country.

Well, if that were true, all kids in the US would be straight as 99% of everything we see is hetero based nowadays. But people are identifying as gay DESPITE everything straight around them. Is it innate? Is it how they were raised? Is it a developmental process?

Maybe. But someone has to provide proof of these 'choices' through extensive research. No child(except for a very few outliers) before the age of 8 can identify as anything, developmentally they are not interested in anyone, they are just exploring themselves at this stage, just learning about sexual things. During adolescence though, people are exploring lots of things about themselves and going through a storm of hormonal changes and increases, sexuality is something that might not be set in stone until after the brain has fully developed, and that is in the early to late 20's for most people.

'If their brains aren't fully developed that must mean they 'choose' to be gay during their teens!'

Not really, hormones do lots of involuntary things to teens, like menstrual cycles and যেভাবে খুশী erections. Sexual hormones can increase sexual drive, and that isn't a choice. It's a choice to have sex with someone, but not to be sexually attracted to them.

So your friend is experimenting, and he will know better than anyone else if he is gay অথবা not.

No, they aren't. Because gays can't reproduce -_- Everyone knows that u need a guy and a girl to have babies.

They aren't born gay, they choose to be gay.

I think they choose to be gays ..

I think people either are born gay অথবা become gay (but that doesn't mean they choose it). Either they are born gay and from the moment they felt feelings of attraction to anyone it was to someone of the same gender, অথবা over a period of time their sexuality changes as they go through puberty. For example, I have a friend who thought she was straight when we were fifteen (and fancied this guy a lot), came out as bi when we were sixteen and then a couple months later ব্যক্ত she was a lesbian. It definitely isn't a choice though.

Some choose it.
And some are born this way.
Because not every gay is happy with life, are they?
If they're not then it means they are born this way.

People are BORN gay, they dont choose to be gay!

I'm not really sure. Some people might experiment some to see if they're gay অথবা not.

Really, i'm unsure.

Being bisexual, i believe it's more-so something আপনি naturally develop.
it's not something আপনি can just formally decide-
আপনি can't just decide who আপনি fall in প্রণয় with, now can you? no.
and, to everyone here talking about reproduction;
Stop.
being gay/lesbian/bisexual has nothing to do with whether অথবা not the person wants to have children.
Wanting to have/not have children is a choice, your sexuality has really nothing to do with that, other than the fact that আপনি wouldn't be able to biologically have children together. (unless of course আপনি went to a sperm bank, but that only applies to a lesbian couple, who could actually have that option. otherwise, আপনি could adopt a child.)

So, no. i don't really believe it's a choice, but a mere adaption/natural attraction.

আপনি are born with it. People cannot choose their sexuality, but some might be not sure about their own sexual preferences দ্বারা long time....

I bet to homosexual people it's hard when they realize their orientation, because they are afraid of reaction of family, বন্ধু and intolerant society. Sometimes it's hard even to themselves. It's not a choice, when আপনি wake up one দিন and think: "Since now I will be gay, it seems to be cool"

I don't think anyone is born gay but they certainly don't choose to be gay.I mean,falling in প্রণয় with someone isn't something আপনি can control,you don't choose who আপনি fall for.But I also don't believe আপনি can be born gay;I think আপনি realize you're gay later on in your life like in your adolescent years.

Is this a trick question?

Well I sure as fuck didn't choose it.

Sexuality isn't something আপনি can simply "choose". For all of আপনি out there who say so, can আপনি "choose" who you're sexually attracted to any time আপনি feel like it? I highly doubt it. It's something your born with, but আপনি don't realize it until later.

আপনি don't choose your sexuality, আপনি are born with it. I didn't choose to be straight, I was just born like that.

Born

I think they are born gay. It's not choice, it's who they are. Some people are in denial, অথবা force themselves to প্রণয় the other sex when they actually don't প্রণয় them because society dictates it that way. I found a lovely song the other দিন which carries this message and I'd like to share it with আপনি all if that's ok

You're born gay.

Its a little bit of both i guess cause if আপনি chose to be gay then its your choice আপনি just don't realize It until a certain age but sometimes আপনি can be straight and then chose to be gay instead.

they choose to be gay, does anyone have a problem?

Pretty sure its mostly hormonal.
I mean, its hard to actually control blood to the...erm, yeah. And exactly why would anyone want to feel crazy over another person দ্বারা choice? I rather feel rational and logical all the time than crush on some person that isn't what my brain feels him/her to be. It just sorta happens.
If I could choose a sexuality right now, I'd go completely homosexual. I have reasons, but its kinda hard to avoid attraction with women.