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so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy অথবা needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are আপনি doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few মিনিট পূর্বে i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought আপনি were sleeping...and whats with half the হৃদয় note?' (i had this note i put up a few months পূর্বে that read without আপনি im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd আপনি put half a হৃদয় up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i প্রণয় you' then he went to bed...but would আপনি say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from অভিনয় this way?
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Zeppie said:
আপনি say আপনি guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's অভিনয় like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if আপনি feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did আপনি ask him about his past relationships... Make sure আপনি are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
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EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not তারিখ him even if he was good at sex অথবা something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird গাধা way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
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Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! আপনি need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling আপনি a liar, but implying that he doesn't want আপনি talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who আপনি talk to and cannot control who আপনি hang out with. If he can't respect this, আপনি should consider ending things with him.
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