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I found something on my friend's ফেসবুক

My friend left her ফেসবুক logged on on my laptop so I decided to have a quick snout through her messages with her and my friend who I recently fell out with (just to see if they ব্যক্ত anything about me) And I found a heck of alot of messages slagging me off! From both of them!!! I couldn't help but cry! They were talking about how I'm such a bad friend and so annoying, they were লেখা MASSIVE paragraphs full of hate, I couldn't help but cry. I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me! I've had sleepless night due to texting her all night when she had suicidal thoughts. I've never had a true friend and I thought she was, I give up on everyone! I've spent so much time on her! She's always come 1st. I just can't believe she would do this to me!:( I want to tell her about it to sort it out but it's kinda my fault for hacking her facebook.... what do I do?
HELP! :'(
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neonClouds said:
Find some new friends, no good can come from remaining বন্ধু with someone who secretly hates you. Don't say anything to her either, no insults অথবা backlash, just settle things peacefully.
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Okay, thankyou :)
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Sounds like a good idea.
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EgoMouse said:
Ouch, that sucks. I would make new বন্ধু immediately. Ditch her. People don't really change easily. I don't feel really comfortable talking about people behind their backs, but most of my female বন্ধু and gay male বন্ধু do that. Even joking wise, its kinda hard. It takes a huge lack of respect to do something like that. Feel happy that you're a good friend that would help a friend through suicide, but don't ever feel bad about yourself because your friend is an asshole. Please don't give up on people because of her, not everyone's an arse, but a lot are.
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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Thankyou so much! I went on her account again this morning and found আরো messages slagging me off, I think I will ditch her tbh thank you:)
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Bridget_J said:
First off, আপনি did a good thing to save her life and আপনি should always remember that. আপনি are an amazing friend and that is most important.
Second, আপনি could try and talk to her, not even mention Facebook. Just start with something like "hey i feel like আপনি are not being a true friend, that আপনি have not been as nice to me, that we are not as close." Then see what she says and if আপনি still really want to talk to her just try and steer the conversation to her not being a good friend.
আপনি are an amazing friend, and try to find a new friend maybe. I can tell আপনি are the kind of person everyone wants as a friend.
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That's a brilliant idea! I will do that right now thank আপনি so much and she doesn't think I'm a great friend but thankyou that really made me smile
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SeeUV3 said:
I know the feeling I thought I finally found a good friend but once they got a boyfriend they showed their true colors.... She started ignoring me and moving away from me saying how her boyfriend is the only thing that counts and that I am nothing to her . She even rubbed the fact I had a crush on her in my face দ্বারা saying "ya know I have a bf so আপনি are JUST a friend " Meanwhile she ব্যক্ত she liked me back ! I even kissed her once (she didn't সরানো away and she blushed and smiled and hugged me so I am assuming it was ok) And we got into two big fights calling each other name after nam screaming at each other I just wanted her to talk to me for once and to realize that I care I STAYED UP ALL NIGHT TALKING HER OUT OF SLITING HER WRIST and she says that I am a snobby know it all and that I never did anything to help her!!! Now we don't talk at all....
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Wow, that's horrible! আপনি seem like a lovely person, don't let her get আপনি down she obviously doesn't know what she's lost, message me if আপনি ever wanna talk? Looks like we have a lot in common....
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sarabeara said:
I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me!

Erm, that's definitely not something to be mad about. আপনি saved a person's life and you're a great person for it, no need to be upset over her not repaying আপনি for it.

Anyways, like another person suggested, definitely find some new friends. আপনি sound like a great, dedicated person so I'm sure you'll find better বন্ধু someday. Don't lose hope অথবা be hurt. Some people are just immature and don't understand what a great thing they have until it's gone. I'm sure they'll realize their mistake after আপনি find better friends.
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Okay thankyou
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summermia_ said:
First of all, do not get her back, i know আপনি probably werent in the first place but still do not. Two wrongs don't make a right and it wont help anyone. সেকেন্ড of all, its very honorable of আপনি to help her with her internal struggles(: Lastly just come up to her and talk to her about it, get her side of the story and then take action, আপনি never know what was going on, আপনি always have to be careful with these kind of things. I mean for example what if, like আপনি did, some one just hacked her account অথবা something. Good luck and I hope আপনি get amazing friends(:
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Good idea thanks
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Zeppie said:
I relate to this so much (except for the ফেসবুক snooping).

I had a so called best friend who I cared for so much, was the only one there for her, stayed up with her for hours talking to her when she was suicidal for 5 years when her own parents didn't even do shit, I had to be like a mother to her. Then she repays me দ্বারা slagging me off too, calling me a bad friend and always putting me down to make herself feel better.

All I can say is confront her, see where it goes, but ultimately সরানো on, hold your head up high, আপনি are an awesome person and they are not worth your time if they ব্যক্ত such things. Don't let them walk over আপনি again because it will kill your self esteem. NEVER try to people-please. Learned that the hard way.
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I'm so sorry আপনি went through that, আপনি didn't deserve that! And thankyou very much, I'm gonna listen to your উপদেশ (as you've had experience) and confront her and find new বন্ধু thanks again :)
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kpop4everlover said:
You're an amazing friend , we should have আরো people on earth like আপনি , your friend is not a true friend , if they talk behind your back অথবা hate আপনি secretly. আপনি saved her from suicide , wow what a friend she is to be doing that to you. She is just...wow , just leave her because she doesn't deserve আপনি helping her then talking behind your back , if she doesn't tell the truth just leave her. Find a new friend , since everyday is a new দিন and আপনি can have a fresh start! Don't let one person make আপনি really upset and sad. আপনি have lots of time to find a true friend , there are so many people in the world , not just her so be strong and আপনি will surely find a true friend like yourself!
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Awh that really made me smile thankyou so much :3 And okay good adivice, thanks! :D
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