Is it true that you'll end up being in প্রণয় especially if আপনি don't want to.

আপনি don't GET married unless your ready but I'm pretty sure it's gonna happen in your life.
Sorry.

My mom told me the same. I didn't believe her at first but I find it true now. So yes আপনি will end up married. Even if আপনি find that man unattractive.

what the hell
how can আপনি end up in প্রণয় when আপনি don't want to
no one gets married if they don't want to it's not something আপনি are forced to do

Uh . . . No. Marriage isn't something you're forced into, at least, not in this culture.

A lot of people don't want to fall in প্রণয় at first, but then they change their minds. They do it and hate it, then regret their decisions.

আপনি don't fall in প্রণয় unless আপনি have a reason in most cases, আপনি just hate your decisions. প্রণয় can turn out bad in some cases!

Most people are going to get married eventually. Most people, even if they don't think about getting married, will eventually find someone they প্রণয় and want to get married to.
So, if you're one of the few people in this world who will never have the desire to get married, আরো power to you, no big deal, আপনি won't ever have to, but most people, even if they don't want to get married while they're young teenagers, will find someone who they want to get married to later on.
So, don't take his word for it, but don't completely disregard it either.

Your ex friend is wrong. আপনি DON'T just end up getting married

Getting married and having kids are both super personal decisions আপনি make. Key word being "decision."
Some people participate in arranged marriages, which has to do with legal matters and I don't know enough about it to talk about it anyways.
Some people don't find married life অথবা raising kids to be satisfying অথবা just don't think it's for them. And that's totally okay. Again, nothing should be forced on আপনি if আপনি don't feel comfortable.
And okay, yes, some people may change their minds eventually, but being pressured into that life is super unhealthy and rude. I hate to say it, but family members are really guilty of it, even if they don't mean to do it. At least, in my experience a lot of that comes from them.
Don't do anything আপনি don't want to do!!! Be happy however আপনি want as long as আপনি aren't hurting anyone who doesn't deserve it. :-)

Uh well..

Sure some people do end up getting married and having kids and such even when they thought that they never would because we can't plan our lives, it just happens.

But to that statement "even if আপনি don't want to", then I say no. You're not forced to marry অথবা have children. Though that could be argued when আপনি bring cultural values and religious beliefs into the equation. But from an unbiased side, আপনি wont get married and wont have kids if আপনি choose not to bring those situations upon yourself.

nah

NO