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Have আপনি ever been stuck lacking emapthy?

Not as in like, zombie-faced-no-emotion-prick type of empathy, but আরো of a, আপনি generally try to feel happy for someone অথবা about something but it just flatlines into a "meh." sort of thing? I guess it's আরো so apathy.
অথবা আপনি laugh knowing damn well that আপনি had to make it come out whether it be consciously অথবা subconsciously sometimes?

I dunno, it's hard to explain I guess. It's like the older I get the less real laughter comes around. অথবা oddly enough, I can get happy enough but not know how to express it, so it just comes out as a blank/default slate of "*in Kratos voice* BOI, idgaf" sort of facial expression from what I've noticed.
I think I'm some sorta stuck yall XD
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no, but i have been stuck lacking empathy xD
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.. I was going to turn that into an inside joke, but never mind XD
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4vonlea said:
Oh, good lord no. I'm at the completely opposite extreme. I've been wracked with crippling empathy since I was born. I am moved so easily and very sensitive, it doesn't even matter which emotions (don't get me wrong though, I am in no way a pushover wuss) It becomes so overwhelming that sometimes it's all I can do to just curl up in my shell and shut down my brain for a while. So count your blessings! I say that half-jokingly of course, having a significant lack of empathy is just as unhealthy as having an overload of empathy. So yep, আপনি can have TOO much empathy. I become so concerned with others I sometimes forget I even exist, and while that sounds like an altruistic concept, it is not all it's cracked up to be, believe me. My mother told me a great analogy once: আপনি see someone drowning, but if আপনি start drowning too, there's no way আপনি could rescue that someone.
I know It's only natural for people to constantly want to be like someone else and that in and of itself denotes empathy and while there may be admirable qualities in others that আপনি can take a note from, and while there is always আরো room for improvement with anyone regarding traits and inner conflict, don't try so hard, treasure and make the most of what আপনি got first and foremost, don't sell out, stay true to yourself, find your groove, do what আপনি believe in and প্রণয় doing and you'll have a better life....
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Oh, good lord no. I'm at the completely opposite extreme. I've been wracked with crippling empathy since I was born. I am moved so easily and very sensitive, it doesn't even matter which emotions (don't get me wrong though, I am in no way a pushover wuss) It becomes so overwhelming that sometimes it's all I can do to just curl up in my shell and shut down my brain for a while. So count your blessings! I say that half-jokingly of course, having a significant lack of empathy is just as unhealthy as having an overload of empathy. So yep, আপনি can have TOO much empathy. I become so concerned with others I sometimes forget I even exist, and while that sounds like an altruistic concept, it is not all it's cracked up to be, believe me. My mother told me a great analogy once: আপনি see someone drowning, but if আপনি start drowning too, there's no way আপনি could rescue that someone. I know It's only natural for people to constantly want to be like someone else and that in and of itself denotes empathy and while there may be admirable qualities in others that আপনি can take a note from, and while there is always আরো room for improvement with anyone regarding traits and inner conflict, don't try so hard, treasure and make the most of what আপনি got first and foremost, don't sell out, stay true to yourself, find your groove, do what আপনি believe in and প্রণয় doing and you'll have a better life....
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What makes it even আরো frustrating is that I'm usually that person who has the biggest uplifting spirit in the world. I can motivate someone else waaaay better than myself, and that's usually how it is sometimes. It's not like I'm never happy অথবা anything, because that's usually the case XD But as of the last like, বছর অথবা so, I've felt like this. I know that I care about people, it just doesn't feel like it's actually there sometimes, and I don't like having to remind myself that it is...because what the hell right? হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ
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Oh I can relate to আপনি like on the part আপনি ব্যক্ত আপনি know আপনি care about people but আপনি have a hard time প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে type of situation.
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@pLaStIcSUNDAE oh godddd, I'm so the same way, I can pep talk anyone except for myself and I find I tend to be so much harder on myself than others. The আরো I think about it, the আরো I realize I think I've got a self-destructive personality. And while it's probably not done on a cognitive level, at the end of the দিন it just isn't fair for anyone. Absolutely no one is inferior to anyone. আপনি seem like a good person, give yourself a break, treat yourself, look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself that you're worth it. Force yourself if আপনি have to!
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
In a way, I guess.
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kingcesar67 said:
I have. Yes
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Angelhugs said:
Nope.
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Blaze1213IsBack said:
Like আপনি মতামত প্রদত্ত on someone post, yes I do feel like I lack emotions. Like how আপনি মতামত প্রদত্ত that আপনি know আপনি do care about your বন্ধু but আপনি have a hard time প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে it. I do tend to deal with that. I don't know am not an emotional person so I don't find a lot things sad so I feel like am an emotinless b*$^#@ sometimes হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ so yeah I can relate to a lot things আপনি said.
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Zeppie said:
Yes, I either have a lot of empathy অথবা moments of পরবর্তি to none. It's usually the former but I've had moments where I can't make an emotional connection to something that would require one.
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