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Honestly, I need some suggestions/adive. I have questions!

Okay well literally 15 minuets পূর্বে i হারিয়ে গেছে my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months, i প্রণয় him and i was ready, and i dont' regret it WHAT so ever. But....

When he placed his আপনি know in mine, i felt nothing, is that weird?

I had NO orgasm.

I didn't feel like anything, it felt like nothing was inside of me. (and he was.)


Any suggestions on why i had that?

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15 মিনিট ago...and youre online fanpopping?
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Hellohoudini said:
Well it usually never happens like it does on tv...you know...fireworks...the first time...it usually painfully and usually the guy gets আরো out of it the first time than the girl...sad but true...but if আপনি guys truly প্রণয় each other (and are using protection and being safe)...you'll learn to 'know' each other and it will get better. :)
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Okay, good. Cause i was kinda nervous. I mean like i felt absoloutly NOTHING, not even bad.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
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if u felt nothing 4 him as in emotion then u mite have a problem. then it could have just been sex and tht cold 4 ur first time!
BlackAngel369 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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i mean like i প্রণয় him, and i loved being with him. but when it comes to pleasure in my vagina, i felt nothing.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
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But আপনি ব্যক্ত it was the first time...you were just probably আরো nervous and scared than আপনি thought....now if its like youre 5th অথবা 6th...then its he's not any good অথবা he's not the one অথবা আপনি need to see a doctor....just suggestions.
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BlackAngel369 said:
ok first not evertime a girl will have an orgasm during sex. and 2nd did he cum inside of u,cuz he could b 2 small? (not 2 b mean) if this was ur first time and ur চেরি didnt pop then do it again and mayb u will. but some girl's cherrys pop and they feel nothing and dont bleed eirthr, so... r u sure he was hard enough and u were wet enough cuz tht helps a lot? sex is diff 4 everyone tht dosent knw wht will happen অথবা wht 2 do.
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He's a good size, i know that. (don't worry not mean.) I don't know he was hard and i was wet, it was just SO weird like i felt nothing. no pain no pleasure. I'm just kinda nervous.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
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wht were u so nervous about? geting caught অথবা not knwing wht 2 do?
BlackAngel369 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Both, i guess. But i mean i was relaxed and stuff NOW i'm nervous cause i just thought আপনি were supposed to feel something physically like bad/good, i felt neither.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
sesshyswind said:
Perhaps your physical build didn't match up, eather his penis was to small অথবা your cannel (vagina)is natually wide. Don't worry I'm not the type to poke fun at a sensitive subject like this, its just that আপনি may not match up physicaly.

But....XD, WAIT A মিনিট are আপনি saying আপনি just had SEX 15 মিনিট ago, for the first time, yet আপনি lept out of বিছানা and logged on to FANPOP!!!! Where was your boy frind when আপনি were doing this???? WOW now that's.... I don't know what to sayO_O'
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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I had to go প্রথমপাতা for dinner, so i went onto ফ্যানপপ during the prepration of my chicken salad. lol.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
LadyLilith said:
Wow, erm...get er done? XD

Well it could be a couple things. I'm surprised that আপনি didn't even feel anything bad (lucky...). Well...did he wear a condom? Because that could have gotten rid of some of the pleasure (I hate condoms). And usually...Idk, the first time is usually very different compared to sex আপনি have afterward. আপনি may have to have sex again অথবা a couple আরো times to start 'feeling it.' And as sesshyswind said, আপনি may not match up physically (not saying he's small অথবা anything).
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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Yeah he wore a condom, (though i'm on the pill, just for extra protection.) yeah we're gonna try it couple আরো times, hopefully it'll get better. and yeah i mean he's REALLY tall. like 6'3 and i'm 5'3 but i mean he's a gooood size..thank আপনি for the advice.
Chlarkfan posted বছরখানেক আগে
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well "hating" condoms....it might feel different withoot one but PURLEASE give yourself a pat on the back for being safe. since আপনি say youre on the pill: if this continues আপনি might want to speak to your doctor aboot this issue and try a different pill. hormones can have an impact on your sex drive and the ability to feel arousal.
germany123 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I just personally hate condoms. I'm glad that আপনি are being very careful though, Chlarkfan. :) It's probably just because it was your first time. I'm sure things will get pleasureable the পরবর্তি couple times.
LadyLilith posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I dunno the truth behind the hormone stuff, but if আপনি decide to switch up birth control methods and don't want to take a pill I highly suggest a ring. :D They're awesome; I think they have actually increased my sex drive. Just saying.
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lililove15 said:
well, umm,. i dont think his "thinggy" wazz bigg... hahaha & hunny he wasnt good enough ether, আপনি should look for someone better ;]
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Jillywinkles said:
It's NOT because his penis wasn't big enough---far আরো likely that your clitoris didn't get stimulated enough. Also, do আপনি masturbate? আপনি need to mimic a bit what আপনি do when you're alone, so if আপনি haven't masturbated much, start practicing. Once আপনি are turned on and all ready to go, his penis inside আপনি will be the added pleasure that pushes আপনি over the edge. But the clit is the key to everything.
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