frustrating people?

While I agree that people who aren't অনুরাগী should butt out, I think আপনি may need to research the genre a little more. Yes, জ্যায়াই started out as pointless gay-ish প্রণয় making. And I myself do enjoy a little twincest here and there,but the label of "yaoi" has recently started to branch out. It's not just unrealistic gay relationships anymore! I was happy to find some actual gay প্রণয় that wasn't between two 15-year-old scrawny guys that aren't actually that good looking. But you've got terms confused. "Shounen Ai" is romance and "Shota" is জ্যায়াই with kids. College students aren't shota unless the kid is under the age of 13 and is smart enough to be in college. And they may not all be "newbs". I've been a অনুরাগী for about 6 years now and I believe that my affection for the typical জ্যায়াই guy was just teenage hormones. My প্রণয় of জ্যায়াই has been fine-tuned and,while I will still look at scrawny twinky-men,I believe that আপনি may be the one who's the "newb". Not to offend,but since আপনি probably offended a few,most women/men who like জ্যায়াই end up hating the stereotypical version. I think that many of the younger জ্যায়াই fangirls are actually closeted homophobes. That is,they wouldn't react to real gay men the way they react to yaoi.