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Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.

In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get মতামত like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?

What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad অথবা harmful.

Also, we are aware of the...
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posted by Sephisis17
নমস্কার everyone! Recently, A soap box was added to this spot. My black life দ্বারা user IsabellaAzuria, told us what she fells inside. Whoever, I think our problems can ne solved easly if we have help. So to help IsabellaAzuria AKA Vanessa, I'm going to dedicate this poem that I wrote about 2 months ago, to her. To প্রদর্শনী her that life has collors and it is not black.

Life is a gift
A rare one    
I got to live every second
Since the time আপনি are born

আপনি got to live it not to waste it
This is the only one আপনি have
There’s no re-born অথবা re-incarnation
If আপনি don’t know how to behave

Life is short
So live it good
Whatever is your mood

Don’t be shy have some fun
So your life will shine
As brighter as the sun

Sephisis17 AKA Vitor Martins
Dedicated to Vanessa
Many people feel that প্রণয় hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell আপনি the truth...love won't do that. প্রণয় is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your দিন is আপনি still find a reason to smile because আপনি feel like আপনি have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah আপনি may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell আপনি something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is আপনি can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument অথবা what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give উপদেশ to those people who হারিয়ে গেছে someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if আপনি truly loved them আপনি would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. আপনি will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give আপনি peace at mind. Dream Big. প্রণয় Forever. Live like today is your last day
posted by hipstabelike
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He ব্যক্ত to one of his বন্ধু if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I ব্যক্ত I will make আপনি 99 আরো problems. After that he still hasn't প্রদত্ত up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
Stranger: Tell me what's troubling you
You: Life -.-
Stranger: What about it?
You: Drama D:
Stranger: like what
Stranger: I got nothing better to do, fill me in
You: Well, see, I have a friend, that I really like...
Stranger: And?
You: He doesn't feel the same...):
Stranger: Such is life
Stranger: Plenty of মাছ in the sea, que sera sera
Stranger: What will be will be
Stranger: You'll be okay
You: (:
Stranger: Uh..okay
Stranger: Was that it?
You: Well, he acts like we're going out, its strange.
Stranger: What do আপনি mean?
You: I always hang out with him at school, and once school finishes, he'd চুম্বন me goodbye...
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With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have ব্যক্ত to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.

That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This তালিকা of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give আপনি an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if আপনি ever feel yourself stung দ্বারা the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," আপনি can read this প্রবন্ধ and know...
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*I believe in respecting the privacy of others, so my friend's name will just be Angelica*

So I've known this person, Angelica for quite some time. When I first added her on my fanlist, she sent me a message saying hi and we just became বন্ধু that way. She seemed really nice and sweet, I liked her :)

But then, things started to get a little out-of-hand. Angelica somehow got the idea that every time I'm on ফ্যানপপ I should talk to her. Whenever I was on, she'd send me a message saying how hurt she was because I didn't send her a message. অথবা if I didn't reply her messages within five minutes,...
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Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some চলচ্ছবি I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.

He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy দিন after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my টেবিল group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
posted by PuNkRoCk123
It’s tough when you’ve made a fallacious decision. All sorts of terrible; life-changing things happen! Your feelings about life changed. আপনি find it difficult to mend the situation, and অথবা know আপনি can’t adjust it. আপনি beg and plead to redo everything, but that’s life, it happened for a reason.
My father’s been drinking as long as I can remember. He’d drink about seven bottles of বিয়ার everyday when he got back from work. I’ve told him once in awhile about how concerned I am about his drinking, especially how dangerous it is when consumed too much, and his response was always the...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call আপনি and it's not about who you've dated, are dating অথবা haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport আপনি play, অথবা which guy অথবা girl likes you. It's not about your shoes অথবা your hair অথবা the colour of your skin অথবা where আপনি live অথবা go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, অথবা colleges that accept আপনি অথবা not Life isn't about if আপনি have lots of friends, অথবা if আপনি are alone, and it's not about how accepted অথবা unaccepted আপনি are. Life just isn't about that.

But life is about who আপনি প্রণয় and...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
"I've found that a substantial fraction of many people's days is spent worrying about what others think of them. If nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, we'd all be 33 percent আরো effective in our lives and on our jobs.

How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.

I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good অথবা bad, I'll let আপনি know what's in my head."

That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke...
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posted by Cutebutcrazy--
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let আপনি know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it আপনি just need উপদেশ অথবা want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but আপনি can't let that get আপনি down. So before yo udo something studip অথবা something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If আপনি want to talk send me a message I'll help আপনি out.
posted by Shelly_McShelly
Just a moment in this lifetime,
Just a tragedy ahead.
Not knowing where each turn will lead,
Within সেকেন্ড we might be dead.

Live each দিন to the fullest,
Do not stop to wonder why.
Do everything your হৃদয় deisres,
In dreams, rech for the sky.

Surprises at every stop sign,
With its share of wrong ways and dead-ends.
Statistics dont help আপনি with the future,
They only tell আপনি where you've been.

With so many people amoung us,
There are no certainties.
And all it takes is just one person,
To reroute history.

Don't waste one single moment,
How very precious that they are.
What seems a long way off,
Is really not that far.

ক্ষুদ্র হংস Henderson.
I'm a 16 বছর old female (about to graduate her sophomore বছর of high school) & everything used to be okay. I was a 4.0 student (up until now), I had a few বন্ধু to hang out with on weekends, I studied hard, I got along with people... But now I just feel terrible. My grade point average has dropped to a 3.7 (which is still good but... it's not good enough) & my mom never ever helps me at all: she always makes things worse with all her yelling and screaming at me to "get skinnier" and "go on lots of diets" and "lose weight lose weight!" and "go to gym আপনি need to lose weight" but...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
hi, so i think i might have depression. i know people just say these things to get attention, but i'm not just saying it, this is something i'm really scared about. i'm sorry if this is really long, but i need to just let it out.
i'm sad all the time, manly when it comes to things like school and family. i just started বছর 10 and it really isn't gong well.
i've been put in the challenge class (advanceed class for super smart people) and dont know why. everyone n my class gets A in every subject and 100% in tests and my average grade is a C অথবা B, and my average percentage is under 75%. it's...
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 me SurferChic
me SurferChic
all people of ফ্যানপপ i have a habit of biting my nails my mom and me have tried every single thing to try so fellow fanpopers please give me a solution if আপনি do i will give আপনি somthing in return if আপনি want a reward if IT DOESN'T WORK i will still make আপনি somthing আপনি just leave me what আপনি want in your picture unless i already tried your suggestions thanx for পাঠ করা

yours truly SurferChic. :D

ps thanx so much if আপনি responed pss thanx

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 Mário *-* the amazing guy who saved my life in so many ways, my boyfriend and the প্রণয় of my life <3333
Mário *-* the amazing guy who saved my life in so many ways, my boyfriend and the love of my life <3333
I want to dedicate this to my boyfriend Mário aka ফ্যানপপ user leuron. It's not enough, no matter how many times I tell him how thankful I am for what he did and still does for me.

You are my boyfriend, my love, my life.
The one I want to spend the rest of my life with.
But you're not only that.
You have always been the best of বন্ধু I ever had.
The দিন we first talked we had no idea.
What was gonna happen later.
We became close friends.
Because আপনি helped me out of trouble.
If there was noone I could talk to
You still had advice.
People got tired of me talking about my troubles.
Not you.
You never got...
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posted by iluvtheoffice12
first of all i would like to say thnk u to all u fanpoppers out ther i have talked to several of u about this and u have been very suportive and comforting and im sure any1 tht reeds this will be to. i made this spot for people tht need to get things off their chests can so here we go....

when u wer here i loved u,i miss u আরো thn ever and i want u bak আরো thn anything ,the scars প্রদর্শনী my pain L.B. R.I.P. i mis and প্রণয় u forevr linzi

her name was lyndsay

she was the most amazing person ive ever met open to all ways of life and all opinions she was beautiful smart funny and she loved to party....
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i think everyone feels the winter blues a bit but i thought আপনি might like to know to what extent...

a survey found that winter leaves people feeling demotivated, deprived of sleep and irritable;
-Half of Britons suffer from "winter depression" between September and March
-48% of those surveyed believe they suffer from seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
-18% of people eat আরো than usual to cheer themselves up
-16% find it difficult to sleep
-15% believe winter depression makes them argumentative
-January and February are the most likely months for people to suffer from winter depression, followed...
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Ok, here it is,
One দিন I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends বন্ধু comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I প্রণয় back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying তোতাপাখি that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my প্রণয় for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift অথবা when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!