Can someone please tell me how to deal with supposed বন্ধু who say stuff about Michael Jackson to আপনি when they should know দ্বারা now that he is your life, and আপনি have nowhere else to hang? (BTW I'm not an aggressive person)
Thanks so much for all the help আপনি guys. I realise now who my true বন্ধু are. That is আপনি guys. I decided to leave the people saying stuff about MJ after talking to them about it in vain and have found a great group of বন্ধু who প্রণয় me for me. Rhanks again
If they are meant to be বন্ধু of yours then they wouldn't be doing this. I suggest আপনি start off দ্বারা ignoring them. If they say bad things to your face just roll your eyes and walk away অথবা something like that. A lot of haters will stop if they see it doesn't bother you. However if your "friends" don't stop then stand up for yourself. আপনি don't have to be aggressive about it. Just say that if আপনি are really my friend then আপনি wouldn't be অভিনয় like this. অথবা just feel free to tell your parents অথবা an adult আপনি know. Some people feep childish doing so but its worth a try. I hope this helps. :-)
posted বছরখানেক আগে
Thank আপনি for your advice, I really appreciate it and I'll try not to take things they say to হৃদয় cause I tend to do that
I have the same problem as আপনি do.None of my বন্ধু is an MJ অনুরাগী and worse:sometimes they make jokes about his nose অথবা his dance moves and that bothers me a lot!And I feel so lonely when I hear those things because there's no one to help me to stop it!But,usually when I say :"Stop!"they stop because they're my বন্ধু and they don't wanna hurt me!I have to admit that there are many people who hate Michael অথবা simply don't like him but that doesn't means that they can't be my friends,if they want!Because,everybody has the right to have an opinion!So,if আপনি consider that they are your friends,tell them to stop and if they do,then forgive them and keep them close!You must leave behind the past mistakes if someone says he's sorry...That's one of the things that Michael taught me!
posted বছরখানেক আগে
Yea they do say stuff like that to me and I tell them to stop but they just stop for a few days and do it again. thank আপনি for your help.
Tell them if they are your friends, they would respect that আপনি admire Michael. When they say whatever they say about him, just ignore it. That's what I do when someone disrespects someone I like. But if it doesn't work for you, just stand up for Michael. Tell them that Michael means a lot to you, and if they don't respect that, say আপনি need actual বন্ধু who will understand.
posted বছরখানেক আগে
Thanks, I appreciate your help, and I do stand up for him but I just end up crying. I'm very sensitive when it comed to Michael
if they are really your friends,they'd stop saying that knowing how আপনি feel about him.so just ignore them,defend him a great deal always driving your points প্রথমপাতা even with archival evidence if possible.to them,ignorance is bliss but আপনি know whats true.so just keep the faith,dont let nobody turn আপনি round..
posted বছরখানেক আগে
ha OK. I প্রণয় how আপনি incorporated those songs into your response. MJ forever and a দিন
Just ignore them . & don't be angry at them অথবা something , after all they are still your বন্ধু even though আপনি guys have diffirente opinions about MJ . It's not important what other people say অথবা think , it's আপনি we're talking about . and it's your life so আপনি can প্রণয় anyone আপনি want to .
None of my firnds like Michael. Whenever they rag on me, I just say "Do আপনি have ANY taste in সঙ্গীত at all?!" Itys true, this is for all the Queens Of Pop =)
posted বছরখানেক আগে
they do like his music, just not him. But thanks that made me smile
Grow some ballz and get over it i like mj but i dont know him personally to get mad at a friend who hates him unless mj is related to আপনি get over it. do আপনি really want to lose ur বন্ধু over this stupid opinion?
posted বছরখানেক আগে
I see your point, but they should still respect who she likes.
i think it depends on how bad it it, like my best বন্ধু do it to tease me cuz they know it bugs me, but if they are doing it to piss u off they shouldn't be your friends, and if আপনি ask them to quit nicely and they don't they arnt your true friends.
posted বছরখানেক আগে
thank আপনি so much. I really do feel that the people on ফ্যানপপ are my only বন্ধু sometimes. I প্রণয় the picture BTW
i just ignore them. I dont know how many people i know that hate michael. I'll get mad at first but i eventually get over it. If আপনি have to if they keep doing it bring up the point and say "Do আপনি see me judging who আপনি like?" and if they say something smart just dont talk to them anymore. I understand everyone has an opinion, but still your বন্ধু should প্রদর্শনী some respect, i dont care who আপনি are আপনি should never make fun of someone espeacially when they are dead. If they dont listen dont talk to them until they apologize. I hope this helps.... :)