If that's the case, then আপনি have a huge decision to make. First off, remember it's not the child's fault that this happened so don't put the child through hell. Second, this person sounds like a jerk so he isn't worth your time অথবা happiness. If আপনি would rather be happy than be miserable I would break things off.
If আপনি need to blow off some steam about things (I know how that goes) just send me a message and blow off some steam. আপনি don't have to, but it might help. Just label it Blowing off Steam অথবা something. I'm not trying to sound harsh with my উপদেশ অথবা anything though, so please don't take it like that.