Am I conceited?

Hi,
A lot of আপনি may recognize me as the one who was irritated দ্বারা a lot of Twilight fans. Well, this problem I have is sort of about Twilight, but basically I just want to know who was right and who was wrong.
আপনি see, I recently wrote an প্রবন্ধ where I compared myself to the character Bella Swan. I came up with 46 ways in which we were alike, and I পোষ্ট হয়েছে it. I did recognize one thing that made me sound tacky, and I immediately fixed it. In fact, I constantly fixed a lot of things about my প্রবন্ধ before finally publishing it. But when I left it alone finally, I received a lot of upsetting comments.
A lot of them ব্যক্ত that anyone could be like Bella রাজহাঁস in the ways I wrote, and one person called my প্রবন্ধ conceited. I honestly don't know where someone can pick this up from, here's the rough draft of my article;

Hi, my name is Ciera, a lot of আপনি may know me as sapherequeen. This is my sixth article, and it's completely different from the other ones I made; this one is about the billions of ways in which Bella and I are alike. I swear, it's soo weird. It's like are identical twins অথবা something :D

Ok, here is a small portion of ways we in which we are alike;

1) I am shy
2) I have sweet blood (mosquitoes and other insects like those will constantly bite me)
3) I like to be alone
4) I প্রণয় Renesmee > 2
5) I প্রণয় Edward
6) I প্রণয় Jacob
7) I have চকোলেট brown eyes
8) My parents aren't married
9) I don't usually fit in with a huge crowd
10) A lot of girls were nasty towards me for small (Lauren) and BIG (Rosalie) reasons...
11) Our birthdays are almost exactly a মাস apart, she's September 13th, I'm August 14th :)
12) I'm clumsy
13) I end up bruising everywhere on my body
14) I'm not that fond of the water (sometimes)
15) I would do anything for someone I love....
16) I'm not good with little kids
17) I am very serious
18) I am very smart
19) I like to read a lot
20) I usually find myself হারিয়ে গেছে when a lot of