1:whatever আপনি do don't call them a jerk(that would just make them get defensive) 2:stay as calm as আপনি can 3:make sure আপনি and your friend are alone when আপনি tell them 4:give them a example.like আপনি say" yesterday at lunch আপনি ব্যক্ত I was stupid and that hurt my feelings.It would be cool of আপনি to not say mean things;can আপনি do that for me?" that is just a example. If your friend is not understanding then I wouldn't hangout with that person much. I hope I helped:)
Like the person above ব্যক্ত - don't call your friend a "jerk". It'll just start the conversation off badly.
Maybe আপনি could just tell her how আপনি feel দ্বারা how she's been acting. Don't be too straightforward. Be calm. Try not to make her get offended দ্বারা আপনি telling why আপনি think she's being mean to whoever she's being a jerk to. This probably didn't help. :\
I agree with the পূর্ববর্তি two, do not call him a jerk. আপনি could ask if everything is ok? Give some examples of what he's done and maybe mention it's not like them. That way it opens communication. There's a small chance that something is going on with him that আপনি don't know about. He may be taking it out on আপনি without knowing about it. But even if that's not the case, it will let him know in a nice way that আপনি don't like the way আপনি are being treated. Communication is the key to get to the truth. Good luck,
