is she,starting to hate me now?

Well,my friend who i knew since 4th grade,has recently started to be mean to me. She,hardly notices me,sort of yelled at me once,and told me to shut up when i ব্যক্ত hi. Then,during the 2nd to last দিন of school,to get back at some guy,she grabbed my book,not the libary book,but my own book that i bought with my late mom's money,and threw it at him. When,i got the book back,it was bent and had marks on it. So,i got upset over it,and mumbled stuff. Then,she thinks i'm making a big deal over a book,but i said,she shouldn't have thrown my book in the first place. So,a little bit after that,she got mad at me,for cussing. Which,last i checked,i didn't. She kept saying,my mom wouldn't like me to cuss,and that she knows i cussed,and that i wasn't supposed to cuss,because it was against my religon. (Which,it's not. i just don't usually,cuss until i'm mad.) So,she ব্যক্ত she hated people,who did that. The whole time,her friend,who just sticks to her side calls me stupid. The whole time,in my head. i wanted to tell her to shut the f**k up. But,i knew that it wouldn't help. So,what should i do about my.."friend?"
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BabyBlud said:
I don't think she's starting to hate you, i think she's trying to exclude আপনি but being mean enough to make আপনি leave. বন্ধু will always break away from each other to lead their own lives, so losing a friend shouldn't be that big a deal, you'll always make আরো in the end. One's who will stay দ্বারা your side for years to come.

This friend of yours needs to get her actions straight and your must tell her so. Invite her round to your house for চা and express your feelings in a calm and above all mature manner. Just explain that her সাম্প্রতিক behaviour has made আপনি feel like she is trying to push আপনি away and আপনি would like to know why. Tell he she has no right to take your things without your permission and use them and to never mention your mother in the heat of the moment. Your mother is not a tool she can use to get her own way.
আপনি need to stand up for yourself because a friend who will use আপনি will continue to do so if আপনি don't nip it in the bud now.
আপনি could also widen your social বৃত্ত to include others so আপনি are not totally dependant on that one friend, so if she does decide you've grown apart, আপনি won't be totally alone.
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cparty721 said:
Shes not a real friend she wouldnt do any of that if she was a real friend
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